Women are always easily satisfied, even with small favors; women are always easily moved, even with small surprises.
When pursuing women, men are always able to catch these “weaknesses” of women and then launch effective attacks: candlelight dinners, wine and roses, travel vacations, birthday parties …… all kinds of passion and romance, it is estimated that the picky woman will also be moved by this. And because of this heartbeat, they eventually came into the world of love and thought that the world of love would be full of passion from the beginning to the end.
But over time, many women find that the reality is far from their imagination, and the romance of real love is like a blip that has passed its prime before it can be appreciated.
Women who have been in love for a long time or who are married are busy at work, doing housework after work, and the two of them spend their time at home after work, so where are the roses and wine dinners? The woman who does not live with her boyfriend, more or less, will find that the two of them out on dates less and less often, the location is increasingly monotonous, and the gifts received are increasingly practical and less romantic.
Looking back at the beginning of the relationship, it was like a short-lived dream; and now that the dream is awake, all the good things have disappeared, and what’s in front of a woman’s eyes is still a dull life and a painless love.
Is it that love has changed, or is it that love was originally like this? The other side has changed, or he was too well disguised at first? The actual fact is that you are not gentle enough, or he has another love? …… then, some women began to ask themselves repeatedly, and constantly speculate and doubt. This is the first time I’ve seen this.
In fact, all relationships have a period of stability after the passion has subsided, and it is impossible to always be in love. The most important thing is that it is not just a matter of time, but also a matter of time, and this is a very normal process.
It’s not that love has changed, or that love is inherently like this; the excitement and the calmness of mind we all have to experience.
It’s not just that the other person has changed, or that he was too well disguised in the first place, but that as the years go by, the way both people treat each other changes quite a bit. The first time, you did not dress up every day, take the trouble to make him more infatuated with you? And now, do you still care that much about his eyes? The first thing you need to do is to ask yourself what you think of each other.
It’s not that you’re not attractive anymore, and it’s not that he’s in love, it’s just that both of us have adapted to each other’s looks, personalities, and habits to have an unhurried mindset. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
There is a story about a boy and a girl sitting together at night looking at the stars, and then suddenly the girl says to the boy, “Can you believe it? There are unique two stars in the sky that represent only the two of us.” The boy didn’t even think about it and casually said, “Wow, really? How wonderful it would be if we could go up to the sky together and see it!”
Time changed, and after a few more years, the boy became a man and the girl became a woman. On Valentine’s Day, the woman suddenly remembered the past and called her boyfriend and said, “Take me to see the stars at night Okay? I do not know these years, the two stars that only represent us still …… “I did not expect her words have not finished, the caller hung up the phone, and then he returned her a text message: “I’m in a meeting. There may be a dinner party in the evening, you eat first.” Seeing this and thinking about the past, she was already sobbing on the other end of the phone.
How hateful time can be. It’s amazing how it can make a person forget the romance that should be in their life, even though they still live together, and he will likely not be pampered and cute with you as often and will only be left to tell the truth and reason.
But then again, just because love has become flat doesn’t mean that he pays little attention to you and meets lovingly; the lack of romance in love doesn’t mean that two people don’t communicate or meet for a long time; so you mustn’t let your guard down with your boyfriend.
No matter what stage of the relationship, two people must keep close contact and communication and always pay attention to each other. At least you should know in your heart what kind of situation and what kind of person the boyfriend you are in love with now is.