Hello, teacher! I am 34 years old and have put my marriage on hold for various reasons. Although I’m so old, I’ve only been in love once before, I think, and I probably don’t know women very well, so now I’m always frustrated in my dealings with them time and again.
To be honest, I feel that I am actually a pretty good man, 175 tall, with good features, a graduate degree, working in a very good institution, and earning a good income. And I do not have any bad habits, usually smoking and drinking, but also do not go to play nightclubs or something, many men love to play online games I am not involved in the side. I am usually more sincere, and around the friends and colleagues are getting along well. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
My classmates and family say it’s because of my personality and the nature of my work, on the one hand, I have very few opportunities to deal with women at work, and on the other hand, I’m not very talkative, so my personality may still be more or less introverted. I also very much recognize their views. So they arranged for me to go on a blind date or something, I generally try to go, but also let themselves try to cheer up a little, will take the initiative and the other party to find topics to talk about, and then after the date as long as it is a little feeling, I will also take the initiative to ask to send them home …… but I do not know why, they will always be unwilling to continue to interact with me. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Dating these women on blind dates, it feels like they always like to treat themselves like examiners. I can understand this, and will try to cooperate. But the sky is always blue, they sometimes ask really weird questions, questions that are not related to marriage at all. For example, when they talked about my sister, they would ask me if she was married. How old are the kids? Do I usually play with my nephew? …… I don’t think any of these have anything to do with matchmaking, but I guess they are looking for something to say, which is understandable.
The sky is always blue teacher, in fact, what I want to talk to you about today is a woman I had a blind date with the day before yesterday. She is the roommate of my college classmate’s sister. Both sides had heard of each other before we met, and my classmate said she had a good impression of me and often read my paintings in the newspaper. Then when we met together the day before yesterday, in the very first half hour or so, we both did talk quite well, and twice she was amused by me and laughed a lot, and made a date to go hiking together on the weekend.
However, to my great bewilderment, she suddenly asked me, “You’re so old and you don’t have a girlfriend, so do you usually watch those kinds of movies a lot?” I honestly said that that kind of thing sounds nasty, I have never seen. As soon as she heard me say that, she immediately changed her face and said, “I have urgent business at home, I have to go back first, bye!” And then turned her head and walked away.
To this day I am very angry when I think about it, I don’t know what she is playing, I haven’t seen that kind of film is that serious? After all, those are unreal things, why should people live so unreal ah, I do not like that, but it does not mean that I am not interested in real women, right? Then yesterday I asked my classmate to go to his sister to ask for clarification, and his sister’s reply made me even more angry, she said that the woman said I either have a psychological problem or a physical problem ……
The sky is always blue teacher, I did not close my eyes all night yesterday, I thought very sad, I have always tried to make myself a better person, but why is it that I always let people comment in a very unkind way? When I was in college I was also told behind my back that I was a castrated cock, and I was really sad and upset thinking about it. I think of myself as a normal man, I want women psychologically and physically, but I can’t do something immoral and shameful, right? You have to think about it properly, right? You have to have that kind of relationship in a proper way, right? I’m going to have a depression, please help me!
Reply from Sky Forever Blue:
The Great Wall never falls. Hello! I feel through your story that you are still a relatively introverted person. It is reasonable that a moderate degree of introversion should have been a good thing, but according to your current situation, the sky is always blue suggests that you may want to let go of yourself a little. You can try to make more friends, and even try to get friends to take you to the nightclubs you never go to, which might all be helpful to you now.
Many things in the world don’t have categories, but people like to artificially classify them according to their own preferences and habits. In fact, the sky is always blue, in the opinion of the man smoking and drinking and going to nightclubs, is not necessarily bad not good, and people who like to watch porn are not necessarily unreal, the key also depends on what kind of psychology the porn people are. Of course, I’m just talking to you casually about all this, but I still hope it’s something for you to learn from.
Then let’s go back to the woman who turned her head and walked away and the question she asked. I think the point is not how you answer her, or whether you’ve seen it, but on her own perception.
With all due respect to the sky is always blue, I think the woman you’re dating is actually psychologically challenged, because whether or not you’ve seen porn is not necessarily related to a person’s quality and physiology. Everyone wants to see it, but ultimately see it or not, but by the consciousness of the person, especially by the person’s environment, character or literacy and other factors. There are many people who read it every day, but will never admit it after reading it. Some people are watching it once to speak once, put porn on the mouth all day as a family segment. So for her to judge what kind of person you are by your one response is just too much of a dog.
The sky is always blue The first is that she has a problem with herself, which is more likely; the second is that she didn’t feel anything for you from the beginning and used it as a reason to find a step for herself to leave, but this is very unlikely. So there’s really no need for you to take this to heart.
Lastly, the sky is always blue or a bit of advice to you. The sky is always blue feeling that this may be exactly what is missing in your body. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a good deal on your own, and you’ll be able to get a good deal on your own.