I am a product developer for a machinery and equipment company. Several previous relationships have failed for various reasons, and unknowingly, I have stepped into the ranks of older women.
In June 2004, the company signed a large order and assigned me to be based at the customer to guide the installation of production equipment. I arrived at the business unit. When I was led into the production manager’s office, a handsome, tall man with a handsome appearance, named Deng Cheng, caught my attention.
I then went into the intense equipment installation phase.
The first time I saw the company, I was able to get to the office. The day I went to the office to pour water, Deng Cheng called me over for a moment. He first asked about the progress of equipment installation, and then took out a box of throat lozenges from the drawer and said thoughtfully, “I’ve worked hard these few days, and your voice is a little hoarse from exhaustion. In the moment of receiving the medicine, my tears immediately filled my eyes, so many years, there has never been a man so caring for me. Deng Cheng noticed my abnormality and joked, “No way, one box of medicine and you are so excited?” I was embarrassed to thank Deng Cheng and walked out of his office.
At night, I was lying in bed, thinking sweetly: Is it possible that God intended for me to meet Deng Cheng and end my lonely luan life that has lasted until now? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. However, I did not know that Deng Cheng already had a girlfriend.
It was a hot afternoon, and I was so hot in the workshop that I took the time to go to the office to blow up the air conditioning and to talk to Deng Cheng. When I knocked on the door, I found another girl in the office, and Deng Cheng hurriedly got up to introduce me, “This is Liu Yu, my girlfriend.” I don’t want to imagine how depressed my face was, but I still managed to squeeze out a few smiles and said hello to her. I was a little sad to see a promising “love” go up in smoke.
Girlfriends offer advice, but progress is still slow
After work was over, I met up with my girlfriends for a drink at the bar. When they saw my sullen look, they asked with concern, “What’s wrong?” I said gloomily, “I like a man, but he’s already taken care of.” The group of good women chattered and asked everything about Deng Cheng. Finally, the most forward-thinking girl took a sip of beer and said, “Yan Zhuo, I suggest you don’t give up, love is earned.” The next few “long-winded women” but immediately interrupted her: “What about his girlfriend?” Niu Niu impassioned speech: “What is it, love is like playing soccer, there is a goalkeeper can not score a goal? The key is strategy, this is to be well planned.” Several next to this “theory” are greatly agree, and together, for me to plan out a “love” report. The nice girl also took out a pen, wrote the “plan” on paper, put it in my bag and patted me on the shoulder and said, “Execute it well, you won’t be disappointed.” ……
At this time, the equipment was also in the trial production stage, as the central air conditioning in the workshop had not been successfully installed and the temperature was very high. But at this critical juncture, Deng Cheng and I soaked in the first line, expecting to successfully manufacture qualified products in one trial run. Suddenly, my body fell down in the direction of Deng Cheng, quick-eyed Deng Cheng held me at once. See my brow lightly knitted, the group panicked, said it was heat stroke. Deng Cheng recklessly picked me up and ran in the direction of the office. Snuggled in Deng Cheng’s arms, his body’s faint smell of sweat and its unique strong manly smell made my heart move, but I still did not move to let him carry to the office. He put me down and asked someone to bring Huo Xiang Zheng Qi water to my mouth, the strong smell of medicine to choke me straight cough, I “woke up”. I opened my eyes and looked at Deng Cheng pretending to be puzzled and asked: “How did I get here?” Deng Cheng said very quietly: “You just fainted from heatstroke.” I struggled to get up and said, “Thank you!”
This is the first thing my “girlfriends” taught me: to arouse Deng Cheng’s compassion for me.
On the third day, before work, I said to Deng Cheng, “Thank you for saving me that day, are you free tonight? I would like to invite you to dinner, and also to thank you for saving my life!” Deng Cheng laughed out loud: “Is it that serious?” But I was unusually resolute in my acknowledgement.
When we arrived at the restaurant, I “accidentally” ran into some of my girlfriends, and I pulled Deng Cheng and said, “This is my life-saver, I’m buying tonight to thank you, so you can join me.”
After the meal, a few of my girlfriends suggested going to the ballroom, and Deng Cheng was a little hesitant, but was pulled into the car by them.
After the meal, several of my girlfriends suggested going to the ballroom, and Deng Cheng looked at me, bowed, and invited me in.
Of course I didn’t say no, my dancing skills had been perfected back in school.
When we walked off the dance floor, I felt that Deng Cheng was looking at me differently, with a different kind of fire and wonder than before.
That’s how a waltz showed Deng Cheng my fashionable and youthful side, which was an important part of the “planning”.
At this point, I didn’t have Deng Cheng’s love, but I had become good friends with him, and I was eager for him to say “love” to me.
But to my dismay, his relationship with his girlfriend remained, and the girl seemed to sense my intentions, coming to the office more often and treating me with an unusually unfriendly attitude. The company’s “planning” think tank had no idea what to do with this.
His girlfriend cheated on him, and I took advantage of the situation
One night, I went to a bar with a dance floor with Niu Niu to release the stress from my intense work, and suddenly I saw a beautiful face, she was Deng Cheng’s girlfriend, and sitting next to her was a man of her age.
The man’s mouth was pecking at her beautiful face from time to time.
I frowned and pointed out the scene in front of me to Niu Niu, who was also a bit indignant. Suddenly she hit me hard: “Hurry up and call Deng Cheng to come over, this is your best chance.” I hesitated, this may not seem too mean, but the girl said, “Do not think too much, this is her watery, and not caused by you, and let Deng Cheng understand their girlfriend is the kind of person, for his good.” This reasoning sounded reasonable, so I dialed Deng Cheng’s phone number.
It didn’t take long for Deng Cheng to arrive.
I don’t specify, but I happily stepped onto the dance floor with him and danced a beautiful waltz. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. Deng Cheng nodded and said, “I’ll go over there.” When I turned around, I saw his girlfriend sitting across the man’s lap, kissing exaggeratedly. Walking in front of Deng Cheng to see her face, his body trembled with excitement, his hand raised high, when his girlfriend also found him. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
Deng Cheng started the car without saying a word, and the car raced down the street. The company’s main business is to provide a platform for the development of a new product. Time passed a little, the river wind is very big, clothes are not wearing a lot of me was frozen shivering. Deng Cheng looked back at me, his face eased, walked to me to take off his jacket, draped over me, and took me into his arms. I put my head against his warm chest, my heart was filled with stirring love and felt unusually happy.
Deng Cheng did not tell me what happened that night, but his girlfriend never came back to him, and the goodwill and familiarity that usually accumulates eventually led me into his emotional world, and I moved in together shortly afterwards.
An oversight that bankrupted a planned love affair
But what I didn’t expect was that this carefully “planned” love affair would soon be bankrupt.
On the evening of May 20, 2005, after dinner with Deng Cheng, I was about to email a client, but I remembered that the client’s email address was still in my notebook in my bag, so I asked Deng Cheng to get it for me, and he readily agreed.
However, lying on my computer, I saw no movement in the living room for a long time, so I went to see why it had taken so long. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services, such as the Internet, the Internet, and the Internet.
Deng Cheng’s rage was unlike anything I had ever seen before, and he yelled, “False, everything is false, you’re an emotional liar! From the time you fainted and danced with me to the time I found out that Liu Yu’s betrayal was all a setup by you, it was a conspiracy! I will not let it succeed!” After saying that, he rushed out the door.
Not long after being nourished by love and still at the peak of joy, I fell into the abyss of pain all of a sudden, tears flowing ……
It was late at night, and my tears were still flowing. Deng Cheng did not return, and perhaps he will never return. Once someone said that times have changed, like a person should be brave enough to pursue, even if it is a little trickery, it does not hurt, after all, women chasing men is not something new. The love I planned also did not have any harmful behavior, but why, he still pushed me down hard from the peak of love …… Is it my fault?
Review: When I mentioned “love planning”, I remembered a story that happened to my grandfather. It was the 60th anniversary of his marriage to his grandmother, and his drunken grandfather proudly said to us, “If I hadn’t devised an elaborate little scam, your grandfather would not have married your grandmother to me!” In life, there are many men and women secretly in love with someone, but because of the shyness of nature and the development of feelings “stagnant”, a creative love planning, can let the inexperienced or inexpressive love proposal, bold and romantic to the other side to confess their love, and finally make each other moved, and finally to capture the The “heart”. Therefore, civilized and elegant love planning is not harmful to the feelings of both men and women, but rather like a refreshing summer ice cream that brings a touch of coolness and warmth when you lick it lightly.
Yan Zhuo’s “planning” for love is harmless, and he did succeed in getting love. The reason why Deng Cheng reacted so aggressively after her “planning” was exposed is that she had a lot of experience with her former girlfriend’s emotional betrayal, and the old wounds were not healed, so she added new wounds to Yan Zhuo’s “planning”. The “love” behavior is somewhat unforgivable. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
But there’s one thing we can’t ignore. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing. The foundation of love is not strong. Therefore, it is not easy to get love, but it is even harder to maintain it, which requires the ability to learn over time. (Reviewed by Dade Peng)