It is said that art comes from reality and is higher than reality, and there is a bridge in all the big family dramas nowadays – successful men are cheating on their wives. They will invariably have a mistress, real life this situation is also abound, so why do men want to keep a mistress? The most important thing is that the woman is not a woman.
Phenomenon: jeweler seeks mistress, hundreds of women apply every day
The UAE newspaper The National says mistresses are a necessity for China’s elite, and that being a mistress earns you social status, which is called “laughing at the poor but not at the prostitutes”.
As a jeweler, Mr. Huang, 37, wanted the most fashionable status symbol for the rich: a mistress. He posted on a Web site the terms of his call for a friend: “160 to 170 centimeters tall, beautiful, sexy and smart.” The reward was 100,000 RMB per month and a small car. On this website, hundreds of women post applications every day.
Li Yinhe: In a male-dominated society, keeping a mistress becomes a symbol of a man’s status and position
With the relaxation of social and economic policies over the past 30 years, many rich or powerful men have repeated the pre-liberation vice of keeping a mistress and see it as a sign of power and status. Li Yin, an expert at the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, said, “Today among men of a certain status, this is the norm, not the exception. They see it as a tradition, like an emperor having concubines.”
Part of the reason for the popularity of mistresses is the increase in wealth in China. Even during the heyday of the Qing Dynasty, only a small percentage of men could afford to keep a mistress. But this phenomenon is also the result of growing inequality and the fact that men still largely hold the reins of power. Li Yin said, “China is still a male-dominated society, and many girls still believe that the only way to get ahead is to find a powerful man.”
Explaining the phenomenon: why women are willing to be mistresses
< strong>I. The poor family situation.
When they were young, they were embarrassed, hungry for food and clothing, unable to have everything their peers could have, and growing up with too much human warmth and worldliness. On the one hand, they cherish what they have got, and on the other hand, they want to have more. They know how to seize the opportunity to make the choice of “sacrificing me to make generations happy” in order to make life better for themselves and their families.
II. Indulgent nature.
Some women, with their innate lust, whistle into the city, their goblin-like nature, and they go everywhere like no one else. It’s hard to say that every time you indulge, you get a “golden treasure”, sometimes it’s an instinctive need; but every brick and mortar they accumulate is undoubtedly related to “undressing”.
Three, greedy materialism.
The character trait of this part of the woman is vanity, and her behavior is characterized by a frantic pursuit of material things. Others have three rooms, she wants three rooms, two rooms; others have a Volvo, she wants a BMW; others have five-figure savings, she wants six figures. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
Fourth, the medium of beauty.
Sadly, this reason is still objectively present. The women who are the most beautiful, the most beautiful, never seem to be left out. They “stand at the head of the tide to sing the wind”, play around with men, and even the powerful and noble people to get around. So medium or medium on the posture of the woman is not convinced, they want to come up to share a piece of the pie, they can only bet on their own body. This is a choice and a helplessness.
V. The mood of self-abuse.
Women in a self-mutilating mood to sell themselves for glory make up a significant percentage of the workplace. Because of a lost love, because of a broken marriage, or because of serious dissatisfaction with their men, these women decide to go out of their way, they stare at one man after another, to achieve step by step. In the constant bitching themselves to get spiritual and physical satisfaction. Self-abuse women are not ashamed and remorseful because the other side is not as good as their original man, but, on the contrary, there is a psychological punishment of their own is to punish the man frankly. This is actually very scary.