I have been married for more than two years and my child has just turned one year old. I’ve been busy working in the field, so I lived separately from my mother-in-law until I went back when I had a baby. The first thing I knew about my mother-in-law was that she was so poor that she didn’t even have a pot, and she always liked to say that I had everything at home and everything was new; she always liked to comment on how fat and thin other people were, how ugly they were, how they didn’t look as good as her own son (and understandably, her own children are perfect in their mothers’ minds); she always liked to say how good her son was… …
The saddest, most painful time was after I gave birth, when my mother-in-law took care of me for the first few days of the month that was the biggest ordeal of my twenty years, and a memory that I will never forget.
For personal reasons, I didn’t breastfeed my baby, so I was fed formula. When I was lying in the hospital, my father-in-law kept buying black fish to send, and my mother-in-law quarreled with him, and the child did not eat milk, so what was the point of buying many black fish? The mother listened and did not say anything. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
Because of the birth of a child to sit on the moon just in time for the Spring Festival, in rural areas, the Spring Festival is to go to the uncle’s house to visit the New Year, but the snow day, there is so much wind, how can I go out ah? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
Every day, I am given a bowl of green vegetable and tofu soup, but I tell my neighbors that I don’t like meat and I like to eat vegetarian The The mother bought some food, let me eat it with boiling water, the little aunt’s children in it with their hands to pull out ah, you say children’s hands which dirty ah, all right.
How can I sleep in a tiny bed with my mother-in-law, my sister-in-law, me and the kids? All I can do is get up in the middle of the night and sit on a small stool and, gosh, watch them and sleep.
Mom, mom, you know everything in your heart, how I wish you could say something, you said: bear it, because she is your elder. You also said: how is she (mother-in-law) you, and not in front of me. Honestly, my heart hurts and is sad…these are my two mothers?
Now I don’t know how to go about it. Because I am a junior, should I not fight back, no matter how I am bullied by you, should I put up with it? “Tolerance”, can it really solve everything?