It seems to have become a trend for couples to live together and not get married, but many women still don’t understand whether the reasons why men don’t want to get married are worth believing or not. When you ask him why we only live together not married, he will tell you a whole lot of excuses to perfume you. You want to know if these excuses of men are true or not? What kind of statement represents that he will be responsible for you, what kind of statement implies that he just wants to play with you? The next step is to analyze the man’s fear of marriage with me.
Excuse one: don’t want to get married so soon
When you a man tells you that he doesn’t want to get married so soon When a man says to you that he doesn’t want to get married that quickly, you will find that the more you push him the farther he goes. He said this for two reasons, one is not sure enough about your relationship. The second is that he does not know if he can run your family. Such a man is not not want to be responsible for you, the second is no confidence, no confidence in themselves, no confidence in the future. This is the time when you should give him some understanding and give him confidence with your love.
Excuse #2: I don’t want to give you an insecure marriage
When When a man says this to you, you should be dead in the water. The man who can say such words will definitely not be a man without financial ability, and even more will not be able to afford your family. If you really think so, really love you so much, love to let you suffer a little bit of aggravation, he will never choose and you did not buy a ticket on the first car. This is a very good way to find excuses for your behavior, he said so, just to perfume you, for him, can drag a year is a year.
Excuse #3: Parents and family don’t approve of me finding a woman like you
I believe you are heartbroken if a man utters such an excuse. It’s not that his parents and family don’t accept you, but that your love is unbalanced. You love him very much, but he has never put you in his heart. For him, you are the kind of person who is dispensable and not worth some effort to make your relationship work and get his family to accept you. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good relationship with a man like that.
Excuse 4: You should still put your career first
Men put their careers first. It’s true, but getting married doesn’t necessarily affect your career. On the contrary, after two people get married, they take care of each other, and you can be his strongest backing. But this man rejected your idea, indicating that such a reason is really just an excuse. The reason for this is that you can’t be sure that you’re going to be able to get the best out of your family.