At the beginning of a relationship, a woman will probably only think about simple and sweet things like being able to eat together or watch a movie together, but men are already thinking about sex at that point. So not long into the relationship, the man will propose to have further intimacy, and even if the woman will agree, it will feel too soon.
Men’s desire for sex is hard for women to understand, and today we’ll see how a psychiatrist explains it.
1. Men use sex as a criterion to distinguish women
When men and women When it comes to interaction, we female friends always classify men into different categories, such as blue confidant, common friend, big brother …… Such division facilitates differentiation in our daily interactions. The same way, men will also classify women, only they are divided by the criteria – sex!
One, extremely ordinary-looking, average body that can’t arouse men’s sexual desire; two, women who can have a one-night stand and won’t care; and three, serious women who can have a relationship, but not a one-night stand, and can be a wife. In front of these three different types of women, men’s performance will be very different. In front of the first type of women, the man behaved not active, not to be taken care of, there is a feeling to escape; the second, the man will give her a sexual hint in a very short time; and the third, the man will be disciplined, the relationship first, followed by a watered-down sexual affair.
The man distinguishes the woman from the woman’s dress and mannerisms to distinguish, therefore, want to let the man have a good feeling, do not take you as the kind of woman who can get laid on the side, then we should care about their usual actions, never in front of him The actual fact is that you will be able to get a good feeling from your man.
2. There will be a big difference before and after men go to bed
If men treats a woman as a fling, then after getting into bed, he will behave in a world of difference, and his heart is torn. He will think that he is sorry for his wife or girlfriend at home for such behavior. When a man is caught up in self-condemnation, he can behave in unexpected ways.
If a man sees you as a marriage partner, but he has a big fallout after getting laid, then he must be second-guessing himself. Many men have high expectations of sex, but after it happens they find out it’s not the same thing. For example, he had thought you would be a virgin with an innocent appearance, but you look like a veteran of love affairs …… Your performance in bed can put men into all sorts of different suspicions, thus causing a big psychological fallout.
But know that if a man treats you as a marriage partner, then he will respect you and will not easily ask for sex with you, so never agree to his request easily in front of a man, or he will quickly treat you as an The object of a sexual encounter.
3. Sex is a normal need
Eating sex is also sex, and the old ancestors discovered that sex is just as important as eating. The old ancestors discovered that sex, like eating, is a normal human need. To say that people are iron, rice is steel, sex is the therapeutic instrument for mental illness. The psychologist Sigmund Freud believed that many psychological disorders are related to the repression of sexual desire, and that as long as sexual matters are normal then the psyche is very healthy.
In the past, people would have been taboo about sex, not hanging around, not flirting with others, and not having inappropriate sexual relations with women other than their wives. Nowadays, with the progress of society, people’s attitude towards sex has made a hundred and eighty degree turn. Many men believe that sex is the normal desire, the desire to come on the need to vent, regardless of who the object is. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.