Did you ever try to call your dear one and get a faint “busy” from him? The “I am very busy” is almost every man in love with the usual excuse, why do men always say busy? Is it really so devoted to work? The most important thing is that it is not just a mantra.
When men fall in love, they often become busy with work, games, and whatever they feel they can be busy with. The girlfriends call him, in return for “I’m busy”, busy with what? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Do men really love their jobs that much? It’s just an excuse they like to use, the best one. Psychologists analyze that men who like to say “I’m busy” usually do so because of the following 4 reasons.
1, to improve their own value
Traditional society, men are the breadwinners
In traditional society, men are the breadwinners and bear the greatest responsibility for the family, and a man who is busy at work all day is a sign of success, so many men in love like to use “I’m busy” to raise their own value, in order to make the other side think he is always a potential stock, even if in fact his career is just mediocre.
2, Giving each other more to look forward to
For love masters The most important thing is that they know how to end a conversation with “I’m busy” at a critical moment, whether it’s on the phone or in a text message. This is a way to give the other person the illusion of being more dependent and expectant, rather than showing all of themselves every time.
3. Avoiding questions
When a man is talking to a woman on the phone The first thing you need to do is to ask a question that you don’t know how to answer, or you don’t want to be chased by the other person, so you want to run away, and “busy” is the best and not rude excuse. The best way to save face is to run away from the question than to answer directly, “I don’t understand.
4. Don’t want to tell the truth
Men always have their own private times, such as not wanting to chat, not wanting to go shopping, flirting with other women, flirting, or even already cheating, they suddenly become very busy. If the woman has objections to this, he can also have a legitimate reason to justify themselves, “I work very tired, why do you have to be unreasonable? I work so hard for what? Isn’t it just to give you a better life?” Blah blah blah some great reason, who knows what he’s really doing?
In short, “I’m busy” is more often than not just an excuse that men like to use, and if you really believe he’s busy every time, then you’re just too stupid. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things.