In real life, how many men do not like to have sex with a mask on? They play a variety of banners, the ultimate goal is only one – sex? How can you see through or cater to him at this point?
Mask #1: If you have sex with me, you’ll love me more
In your relationship with He’s in love, you’ve been treating him as if he’s not. One day, he is affectionate and whispers tenderly in your ear: If you make love to me, you will love me more. Could it be that sex really plays that important a role in your relationship?
Interpretation: Sex is a man’s sharpshooter, a conquest and an attack. In the buddy culture of men, if a guy never gets a girl’s heart, his buddies will come up with the idea that if you take care of her in that area, she will belong to you. Most guys are happy with this.
Mask #2: Sex is the peacemaker
You’ve had a fight with him. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on the right person. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are doing. You toss and turn in the dark, what the hell is going on here?
Interpretation: Many men rely on this trick because every man is convinced that as long as he keeps his wife satisfied in bed, she won’t dwell on the little things that go on in the chicken scratch. The reason for this is that men are good at saving face, and it is easier for them to accept a “sexual reconciliation” than a verbal admission of fault in real life.
Mask 3: He’s bigger than you
You’re the top of the company, he’s the average employee. You are a top-level company executive and he is an ordinary employee; you earn 60,000 a month and he earns 3,000 a month. You think it’s okay, but after marriage, sex seems to be a painful thing for you. He often has to try something violent, and you feel like he treats sex like a performance.
Interpretation: He needs to comfort his wounded pride by being sexually brave, and even if sex becomes a performance, he is happy to do it, and he needs to find a sense of male greatness through sex. At this point, if you can’t accept his sexual antics, you may want to sort out his inner loss for him together. He’s full of insecurities about your relationship, and your explanations and affirmations are a flavor of snow melt for his anxieties.
Mask #4: If you’re divorced, don’t come back to me
One day, you feel that your relationship is untenable. He begs hard, and after seeing that there is no hope of salvaging the end of your breakup, makes a request: he wants to have sex with you one last time, and then never come back to haunt you again. You’re puzzled as to why men still think about such things at such a time. Is this really going to be the last time?
Interpretation: Of course don’t believe him that this is the last time. In this last time, because of the mixture of desperation and passion, he tends to be more desperate for you. The last time is just a beautiful excuse. So, when you encounter this situation, you should firmly reject him, just like “divorce, don’t come back to me”, you have no reason to give him a last time.
Mask 5: Honey, that’s a nice view
He brought home some erotica, and it was as if the family had started an erotica viewing program. He said how open the heroine was and how she was so charming in bed. You were a little confused as to why he was thinking about sex. It was only one day when he asked you to imitate the heroines of those erotic films that it dawned on you that he was on a brainwashing program.
Interpretation: Men seem to be never satisfied creatures when it comes to sex, not satisfied with the number of times, not satisfied with the formality. So, he wants to keep up with the times. He awakens your good sense of learning through the subtle plan of erotic films, and then he sits back and reaps the benefits. On the surface, you seem to be caught in his erotic trap, but such a conspiracy actually benefits your life as a couple.