The annual graduation season is here again, and breakups have become an eternal theme. Students in the graduation season not only remember their lost youth, but moreover their lost love. School love is the most innocent and beautiful, but why do lovers end up breaking up once they graduate? How can you defend your campus love?
Reasons for breakups during graduation season:
1. Love has come to an end Some of the graduation breakups of lovers, a large part of the reason is because their love itself has come to an end, only to use the reason for graduation to break up. The two of them have not thought much about their future. And because both sides have different personalities and refuse to tolerate each other, their feelings have long been worn out. Some couples actually want to break up long ago, but just in time for graduation season, so they break up along the way.
2, the reality of the pressure of campus love so clean and beautiful, not mixed with any real pressure. But when couples go to society, only to find that the pressure of work, family, reality comes one after another, and everyone has their own life, but also have the right to choose their own life. If the two can not solve the reality of the problem, then it is better to break up early. That way when you look back on it later, you will still feel that the love was the best.
3, follow the wind to break up very early heard that graduation is equal to break up, so for some couples, they have not yet graduated when they began to worry about whether they and each other will break up in the graduation season, slowly all kinds of suspicion and suspicion came one after another, resulting in both sides The relationship eventually broke up. The reason for this breakup is unacceptable, if love can’t even withstand the tide of breakup, then how can it withstand the pressure of reality in the future? The only thing that can be left is sadness if the love cannot stand the test.
How to defend your campus love?
1. Where you go, I’ll follow you to where many couples graduate and break up because you study, I work, or you go home, I also go home, so then the two will inevitably lead to the breakdown of feelings because of distance. Therefore, in love always have to have a person to give up their own choice for the sake of each other. You go to where, I will follow to where, I just hope that you can go on with you. This is not unheard of, and there are still many couples who work together after graduation and eventually walk into marriage together.
2. We struggle together without fear of the pressure of reality For couples who break up because of the pressure of reality or family pressure, it is actually possible to continue your love in a different way. The reason is that campus love is the most innocent and beautiful, while social love is a lot more utilitarian. If two people can struggle together, fearless of realistic pressures, and work together to maintain campus love to the end, then I believe that you will be able to achieve happiness after all.
3. If you love, please love deeply There is another kind of couples who are not beaten down by external pressure, but are beaten down by themselves. They have no confidence in their love, so they decisively choose to break up, which is an extremely insecure choice. However, if you truly love each other, you should overcome your inner fears and believe that your lover can give you the future you want and that you both can create a bright future together. Only by giving yourself and each other enough confidence and reliance can you defend your love.