The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult for women to get along well. However, for the sake of the harmony of the whole family, and in order to make their sons (husbands) more worry-free to fight, these two women must maintain a good relationship. Otherwise, once the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is out of harmony, will bring great harm to the family. So here are the top five triggers of mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship discord, let’s see what they are.
1.Different living habits and ideologies
Every family has its own way of life. Each family has its own way of life, and family members have different habits among themselves, such as hygiene habits, eating habits, and living habits. The younger generation and the in-laws’ generation have different ideologies because of differences in time, origin, environment, and education. Seemingly these small differences, the process of integration is very easy to cause conflicts. So, instead of picking on each other’s flaws that are not as good as I want them to be, you should instead accept different attitudes and ideas about life with an appreciative eye.
2. Differences in interests
Nowadays, many lovers, before they get married The woman will ask the man to buy a house for marriage and buy the wedding house most of the down payment by the man, after the wedding common mortgage, but the name is signed by both men and women, but some male parents are not happy, their own money to buy a house, why write the name of the woman, so buried in the heart of the few. After marriage, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the same house, with common economic interests, who is in charge, this is really a problem. However, modern people and the previous difference is that the young couple basically do not have to hand over the economic power, they can freely dispose of the money they earn, but the habit of spending money before marriage must also be restrained, no pair of in-laws like a spendthrift daughter-in-law like water. As for the management and control of family affairs, for new daughters-in-law, don’t fight with your mother-in-law on this point. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
3. Parenting conflicts
With children, everything seems to change. The older generation has their own experience in childcare, but the younger generation is concerned about scientific childcare. When there is a conflict, the older generation will think, “This is how we raised our son in the past, and now he is healthy and fine. But the daughter-in-law will feel that the older generation’s view of parenting is outdated, that I gave birth to the child, that I am the mother of the child, and that I can’t be in charge of the child?
4. Lack of communication
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, just like the relationship between husband and wife, also need to communicate with each other. But many daughters-in-law are simply unwilling to communicate with the elderly, unwilling to listen, unwilling to understand the temperament of their mother-in-law. Of course, there are many mothers-in-law who are confident that they are the elders and always feel that they are right and that their daughters-in-law should listen to them. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
5. Living together for a long time
A good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not enough.