Marriage, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a subject that never goes out of style, from the earliest “mother-in-law, daughter-in-law and sister-in-law” to “double-sided glue”, “naked marriage era”, and the recent hit drama “Weaning” starring Tong Liya, all of which show the various dark battles between women and their mothers-in-law.
It is often said that when a daughter-in-law enters the door, the practice is personal. Every woman has to face her mother-in-law when she enters marriage. If the mother-in-law is kind and attentive, the woman is lucky as hit a treasure; on the contrary, if God ordained the woman to encounter a different kind of mother-in-law, extremely good and difficult, then the woman’s future days will most likely become a battlefield. The mother-in-law is an outsider is a love rival, is a person who picks bones in eggs, but she is the hope that their children happy and successful elders, is another woman’s mother. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Extreme mother-in-law with severe feudalism
Mother-in-law with severe feudalism
Mother-in-law with a strong feudal mindset, mainly manifested in the children of the family observing the family rules, not liking their daughter-in-law to have too much contact with the outside world, especially with the opposite sex, not liking their daughter-in-law to be overly concerned about food, clothing and dressing, not liking their daughter-in-law to have too much socializing.
The older generation of women, subject to the traditional feudal ideological suits, you want to change her mind in the short term, not so easy, not to mention the daughter-in-law, then it is more difficult to sway the mother-in-law’s thinking.
Tips: Most women of the older generation are easily satisfied, they don’t care if they live well, eat well, and wear well, they only care if their children live happily ever after. The comfort and filial piety from the son and daughter-in-law will make her happy. You can care for her from her daily life and be considerate of her, just like a daughter to be her sweet little coat.
A woman with a serious feudal mindset will mind if you get too close to the opposite sex, so you have to keep a sense of proportion when you are with the opposite sex. If a colleague or friend of the opposite sex comes home to visit or call you, you can take the initiative to make some introductions and instructions to her, go out to do something, say hello to her, on the one hand, to respect her, on the other hand, can eliminate her doubts. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Mother-in-law loves to chatter
Mother-in-law loves to chatter, that is, mother-in-law loves to chatter about everything. The fact that the mother-in-law has to say everything, loves to say everything, and says everything over and over again, is indeed an annoying thing for young people. But for the elderly, it’s a common habit, and the elderly generally love to nag.
Tips: Old people love to nag, whether it’s their own mother or mother-in-law, and most women love to nag when they get older, and you need to be able to understand that. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these. In the face of your mother-in-law’s nagging, you need to have patience and listening power. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re going to do, and your mother-in-law doesn’t care.
Mother-in-law who loves her son like her life
Although there are no Qiong Yao dramas where the mother-in-law who loves her son hates her daughter-in-law to death The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do. Many mothers have a sonophilia complex, which can generally be overcome, but there are a few, who will behave in a more extreme way, in their minds, the daughter-in-law is taking away their son, so they will pick on her everywhere.
Support: The average woman with a son love complex can still give you a look in the face of the woman who stole her son? If you go against her again, she will definitely put you in the position of the enemy and will not relent. You can do a proper make modest and needy her late look: “Mom, he ignored me for the past two days, you give me advice.” Show your weakness, out of motherly nature, mother-in-law pity you, treat you as a child, the hostility towards you will slowly decrease. Or in front of your husband, fully affirm your mother-in-law’s role, posing that you will never compete with her for your son, your mother-in-law will appreciate you from the inside, and the pickiness will naturally diminish.
And don’t support her son at will in front of her, children are the heart of the mother, think about it from another perspective, you will also be heartbroken and sad, right? The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get the best out of the company. The son loving mother-in-law is extra sensitive, if you and your mother-in-law’s conflicts are mixed into your husband, let your husband as a lobbyist, not only make him difficult, but also make your sensitive mother-in-law feel that you are blackmailing her with her son. This will make her even sadder and more antagonistic to you.
Long-winded mother-in-law
The so-called long-winded mother-in-law is a mother-in-law who likes to tell The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing. The mother-in-law’s words are detrimental to the daughter-in-law’s image outside, so most women are always very upset about their mother-in-law’s talkative nature and are not good at being outside. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
Tips: When your mother-in-law is happy, you can take the initiative to give her your opinion and exchange views with her. If it is inconvenient, you can ask your husband to do it and communicate between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the divide will be dissolved, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be cordial again as if nothing had happened. If you hear your mother-in-law talking about your faults in front of others outside, you as a junior should respond calmly and never return the favor, otherwise you will only worsen the problem.
As the saying goes, people are not afraid of their shadows. If you are considerate of your husband at home and educate your children well, she generally will not make anything out of nothing. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of the most popular and popular items. The best thing is that you can manage your relationship with your mother-in-law along with the relationship between husband and wife and mother and child.
The mother-in-law who is in charge of everything
The mother-in-law who is in charge of everything at home. The mother-in-law has to take charge of everything in the family, including the son’s and grandchildren’s, including the daughter-in-law. In the daughter-in-law’s opinion, her mother-in-law is the police of the Pacific Ocean, and she has a wide range of control. If it is the daughter-in-law’s part, if the mother-in-law interferes, she must also take charge, so the daughter-in-law will definitely not be happy. If this happens more often, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will get bigger and bigger.
Tips: A woman who is accustomed to the integrity of the home will not “delegate” even if she has a daughter-in-law who can take over her tasks. You can tell yourself that your mother-in-law is doing the work for you, saving you time and effort, so why not? If your mother-in-law is extremely coddling and protective when it comes to educating your child, which is not good for your child’s mental health, you, as a mother, can find time to sit down and exchange educational ideas with her, i.e. exchange opinions and explain the pros and cons. Generally speaking, for the sake of the child’s future, the mother-in-law will mostly listen. If you can’t stand it, you can also talk to your husband about moving out, but that’s the worst possible scenario and generally not recommended anymore.
Childish mother-in-law
If you’ve always been pampered by your husband The woman who grew up under the care of her husband and lived a happy and flat life will still be like a child even after becoming a mother-in-law. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Tips: In the face of a childish mother-in-law, you need to have the patience of a child to teach her. You can obey her on some things first and then reason with her later. You can make up a story like a fable for her to hear, and she will slowly become “understanding”. You can also ask your child to ask her grandmother to help her, to work with her or to complete various tasks assigned by the school; to give good advice on her studies and life. It is very difficult for her to refuse the requests of her grandchildren. At times like this, she must handle the problem like a true elder and can effectively curb her childish tendencies.
Most childish mothers-in-law love to play small, and the slightest dissatisfaction can make a half-day fuss, so you can just chill out or ask your father-in-law or husband for advice.
Editor’s Note: Every family has a hard time, and the husband has a difficult mother. As the saying goes, if you know yourself and your enemy, you can win a hundred battles. When your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, you may want to first find out what kind of personality she has and use the right medicine to easily resolve the deadlock with “bone-setting palm”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.