Women are in a completely different mindset before and after marriage. What is the security that women need, whether it is the accompaniment of a house and car with a modest income, or the belonging of a woman to a happy family, most of this security is brought by men.
Security = money?
What woman doesn’t like to wear gold and silver, designer clothes, and cosmetics that only celebrities can afford? Which woman does not like luxury villas, high-end sports cars, a variety of new listing of fashion equipment? Even if they don’t like these, they won’t mind if they have various bank cards. All of this will give them enough security.
In the current era of skyrocketing materialism, financial security is especially important, and there is some truth to the saying that poor couples are sad. A woman who worries about food and clothing all day long is insecure. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Because passion is only temporary, survival is forever and cruel. Women without security, self-protection and draw outside nutrients root system will become developed. A house, a certain amount of money, all lead to a heightened sense of security.
In a sense, money is a prerequisite for a person to gain independence and security. The private money was initially prepared for women so that they could cope with emergencies or temporarily survive a crisis in case of marital misfortune. In a time when men’s economic status is significantly higher than women’s and marriage is the material basis for women’s survival, it goes without saying that money can bring women security.
Security = true love?
Women are born insecure. As a child, security comes from the broad shoulders and strong back of a father, who is home and heaven. The woman is thirsty for a man who really loves her, loves her, understands her and pampers her; a little more patience and a little more smile for her, a woman needs a sense of security of her own.
Nowadays, urban women have seen so much sadness and happiness that security seems to be a luxury. So what they really need may just be a man’s true love for her. The woman really wants is not a man’s painful commitment, gorgeous appearance; but the life of a little care, careful care of a gentle bark, is trust is thoughtful is understanding is tolerant, is regardless of young and beautiful or look older can be in the arms of the man who loves her to cry and let loose.
Some women love to compare marriage to their own security, but not every woman’s marriage is full of happiness, the marriage needs to operate and coordinate too many things, so women sometimes inevitably feel discouraged, encounter the internal chaos and strife in the marriage, perhaps even the women themselves feel cold. The actual fact is that the actual fact is that the particular person is not a person.