What kind of mindset do men generally have in a relationship? The experts give us a list of the most common 5, which in the end are good and which are not, depending on how you rate yourself.
Low-spirited
Symptoms: Low-spirited men are generally The first thing you need to do is to get acquainted with your lover through someone else’s introduction. These men are usually not very good in their own conditions, and lack a healthy and cheerful mentality, so they are not confident enough and have low self-esteem. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get the best out of your life.
So once someone cares enough to introduce him to a friend, he will be grateful and will cherish that opportunity more. But the bad thing is, that stubborn inferiority complex always comes and goes, lingering. When his lover has a pleasant conversation with another man, when his lover temporarily declines one of his invitations due to physical inconvenience, when his lover gets another promotion or raise ……
The demon of low self-esteem will jump out at any time to make a move, he focuses all his attention on his lover, overly concerned about what his lover and those around him think and say about him, and over time, he will increasingly ignore his own strengths and charms, making these already not-abundant strengths and charms continue to perish.
The bloodless type
Symptoms: This type of man is generally in a proactive state in his relationship activities When they meet a girl who is a perfect match for their dreams, or when a girl they have long desired gives them a glimmer of hope, their nerves are highly aroused and they throw themselves recklessly into the love campaign, launching the fiercest attack on their target at any cost and regardless of the consequences.
Men in love in this situation are always in a state of high excitement, and they are willing to give everything they have to get their lover’s attention and affection.
Specifically, when a lover sees a piece of jewelry at the mall that is priced at $8,500 that she is very excited about, and our hero makes only $750 a month and currently has only $10,000 in the bank, he still doesn’t hesitate to buy it for his lover. The girl may be interested in another fashion item in the boutique worth several thousand dollars.
Self-righteous
Symptoms: This type of man tends to have talent and good looks, and is at the center of public praise. They are at the center of public praise and therefore generally feel better about themselves. They are mostly passive in their relationship activities, but have a dominant sense of self. The reason they are passive is that the girls around him are not the ones he goes after, but they are the ones who are attracted by our hero’s charms.
In this case, no matter how good and rare the girl actually is, our hero is oblivious to it, so he develops an inexplicable sense of superiority and thinks that as long as he doesn’t give up, the girl around him will stay with him forever. The main character of the story is a man who has been in love with his lover for a long time, and who is always in the presence of a giver, sometimes with an arrogant attitude.
Rashly Engaged
Symptoms: Most men in this category ignore the importance of love and are not interested in psychological pleasure. importance and are more indifferent to psychological pleasure. They value skin-to-skin contact more than emotional communication, the end of marriage more than the process of falling in love, so they take a hasty approach to love, and as long as they fancy the girl, and the girl is willing to marry them, they even think it’s better to get married right away, and it doesn’t matter whether they fall in love or not.
So as soon as there is a little exogenous catalyst, they immediately ask their lovers to enter the siege. When a certain gentleman heard that his unit was going to be divided into houses, he didn’t hesitate to go back and ask his one to get married, ignoring the fact that they had only known each other for a month or two (note! The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
It’s puzzling that this kind of person is still quite popular in the market, such as the aforementioned guy, who not only ended up with the house he wanted, but also got a lot of praise from his friends and family, especially his in-laws: “Well, my son-in-law is very capable. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
The “in-and-out” type
Symptoms: The in-and-out man is a typical ambivalent complex. They may have met their lovers on their own, or they may have been introduced to them by someone else. This type of man is often too calm and composed, and shows too much worry and loss in his relationship with his lover. On the one hand, they are in love with their lover (or simply have not yet determined whether they are in love with each other or not) and wish to join hands with her and be married together.
But on the other hand, they can’t afford to spend too much time, energy, and money on their lover because they’re not sure if they’re going to make it or not, so they don’t see the hare. The reason is that these men are too realistic and relatively lacking in passion for love; or they have suffered some setbacks in their relationships, leading to heavy suspicion and fear of being cheated again.