There has always been a traditional belief that the man on both sides of a marriage should always be a little older than the woman so that he can take care of his wife and love her. But nowadays, age is no longer a hindrance for two people to be together, even if the woman is older than the man, she can still lead a happy life. In the complex entertainment industry, the phenomenon of sister-brother relationship is very common, in addition to articles and Ma Yili, Zhang Jie and Xie Na, Wang Fei and Li Yapeng, Das and Wang Xiaofei, etc., they are breaking through the age of the constraints, and finally come to fruition, the achievement of a happy and happy marriage. So many people envy the sister-brother love affair, it in the end has what winning magic? The reason for this is the following two things:
Reason #1: “Sister” girlfriends don’t put pressure on men. Reason #1: “Sister” girlfriends don’t pressure men.
Many times, girls love to be petty, and when things don’t go their way, they tend to cry, break things, and go back to their mother’s house. The “sister” woman has been through the sea of love, already know how to make their own position the most comfortable, what distance is most suitable for two people, will never use some careful behavior to make things difficult for men, they know more about life, all aspects of experience are richer. In this way, men will not have a lot of pressure, more will put more energy on the career, and do not need to spend effort to teach a little girl to grow, and do not have to worry about the “sister” type of women do not move to make a fuss and lose their temper. This is a boon to men who are in the midst of a career and want to devote themselves to it.
Reason #2: Siblings have the same habits and complementary personalities.
The woman in a sister-brother relationship doesn’t have the quality of being young and beautiful, and the man doesn’t have the advantage of being older and well-paid. This time, the two people get along instead more pure, reduced to the need for communication, the need for emotion. Talking to each other must be the primary condition for two people to get together. Only ideas at the same level to communicate, only complementary personalities to communicate more easily. Some people say that “character determines marriage”, this is not to say that there is no truth to it, but not character consistent on the good. In the formula for choosing a good man, habits are higher than character, that is, he must first choose the habits of life consistent with the person, and then consider the character factor. So the important point for a successful sibling relationship to win is that the two people have the same habits and complementary personalities.
However, in reality, not all sister-brother relationships can be happy and fulfilling. Some sibling relationships that do come together do not blossom and reap the happiness that should have been theirs. Sometimes, sister-brother relationship will also bring a lot of trouble, the most common is the girl complained that the boy is not mature enough, the man complained that his girlfriend is too nagging, and over time, the relationship also faded. In such cases, from the perspective of a plastic surgeon, I offer two suggestions that I hope will help people who are trying to find happiness in sibling relationships.
1. “Sisterly” women need to learn to let go of motherhood and learn to rejuvenate themselves.
Women should not be too maternal and spoil your man too much, because your habitual giving will make men feel that they do not need to take the corresponding family obligations. And women will one day feel too tired, and then ask for a change, but both have been used to family responsibility model is difficult to change, rather than early division of labor. At the same time, along with the success of the man’s career, income increases, in marriage or love women have to rely on the appearance of youth, beauty to maintain the relationship must increase, so women should also learn to get themselves back to their youthful state.
How can women bring back their youthfulness? In addition to using cosmetics, skin care products and other necessary maintenance, it is also important to pay attention to a healthy and reasonable diet and to engage in appropriate physical exercise. Of course, there is another way that is currently the most popular cosmetic surgery for women. Many women today are choosing plastic surgery to make themselves more youthful and more beautiful. For example: self-fat breast augmentation, can make sagging breasts become uplifted and plump; green fat buttock augmentation, can let you have a round and sexy buttocks; fine liposuction, not only can help you remove excess fat from obese places, but also help you shape and slim your body; facial fat balance, can effectively improve your facial defects and so on. These are all good options to take advantage of.
2. “Brotherly” men need to know how to give and shoulder their responsibilities.
A sense of responsibility is the foundation of a lasting and happy marriage, and a man without a sense of responsibility will not reap the benefits of happiness. Once the men and women who love each other are married, they should be responsible for each other, for their children, and for society, and do their best to take responsibility for their own. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In a sister-brother relationship, the “sister” likes the “brother”, some of which is vanity, like each other’s young and handsome The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers. The young men, however, often look for each other’s maturity, stability, understanding; some have suffered emotional damage, to find a gentle and kind wife; some have an Oedipal complex. Whatever their (their) reasons for thinking, what kind of relationship purpose, I think the boldness to choose sister-brother relationship, breaking through the constraints of age on this path, is worthy of our blessing!
Age is no longer a stumbling block to marriage; sibling relationships are now more and more accepted and recognized. This is not only from the pursuit of happiness, but also from the heart of the most sincere and strong love!