How far is the distance between the real and the romantic? The cohabiting relationship between a man and a woman best illustrates this. The man, from the initial idea of knowing a woman as spiritual, to the cohabitation perception of a woman as material, is also just a shift from romantic to real.
Living together, the transformation of romance to reality
I’ve definitely passed the the age of indulging in fantasies. The vision of a suitor with flowers and a big diamond ring on his knees in the street has gone with the wind, and while I’m still moved by seeing similar scenes on TV, in real life I’m still trying to get a grip on reality.
How far is the distance between the real and the romantic? The cohabiting relationship between a man and a woman best illustrates this. The man, from the initial idea of knowing a woman as spiritual, to the cohabitation perception of a woman as material, is also just a shift from romantic to real.
Women living together mistake commitment for “debt”
Women, most afraid of being kept in the dark. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. A friend A is an example, and a slightly older than their own woman fell in love, cohabitation, time but found that the woman is not suitable to marry home as a wife. The mother is not satisfied with the woman, A with their friends together also showed understanding, but the woman herself in the dark. Every time I see a woman’s sweet, gentle smile, I can’t help but feel a slight chill in my heart. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Women break up ten times is false, men once is true
I I believe that women say 10 breakups 10 times are false, I believe more that men say one breakup is true.
A quarrel, women make a breakup; life is boring, women say breakup; grab the computer, women complain about wanting to break up; cheating, women a snot and a tear to break up …… Finally, what? As long as coaxing, the deadlock is salvaged. I am not willing to listen to men say break up, I also do not know how to face the man’s firm. Calm it, the heart is bleeding; cry it, the other side more disgusted; do not do to show it, unwilling …… finally? Really can salvage a man’s determination to break up, the future life is also trembling. However, men will not easily say break up.
The last thing you should think about in your cohabitation life is “why should I do this and the other person doesn’t initiate this”. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get a good idea of what you are doing. The woman, should cook? The man, should earn money? So if the woman does not cook, if the man does not earn money it …… series of conflicts in the sesame seeds of small things accumulate, at the end of the day, men are tired, because they are used to patience, but they are thinking in their hearts to endure a lifetime. This time, it’s time to get married again.
The end of cohabitation may not be marriage
Most of those who struggle with cohabitation The ones who don’t want to marry each other are women, hey, women. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Why do you have to get married after living together for a year, two years, three years, four years ……?
Why do you have to get married after living together for a year, two years, three years, four years ……?
Cohabitation is not a condition for marriage, just as marriage is not an insurance policy for love. After making the decision to live together, having the guts to live together should be bold enough to bear the consequences. Marriage should be a natural transition for cohabitation. The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the situation and see what you can do.
Thinking about whether or not the other person will marry you and whether or not the other person will marry you is not the mindset of a cohabitee. Marriage for cohabitants should be a planned and slow process, not a gorgeous romantic scenario, because extravagant romantic aspirations are not real for both parties already living together. It is important to progress to talking about marriage calmly and happily, about how to use both people’s money to set up a banquet, about where to take wedding photos, about where to travel for the honeymoon …… instead of thinking about boasting in front of everyone that it was the other person who begged them so hard to agree to the marriage. Both men and women should properly and clearly express their desire to get married and find out each other’s wishes, rather than always growing their own insecurities in alone guessing. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.