The mode of development of the relationship between men and women begins with the confession of love, but the results are different, it is really not electricity of course can not be forced, how to refuse someone’s confession? The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem.
In the face of the other party’s confession, it is really not electricity, to send him a good man card is also inevitable thing. The first thing you need to do is to say no. Don’t feel free to hurt someone’s fragile feelings.
1、Directly
Directly reject, but of course need to Pay attention to the skill of speech, do not say what I do not feel for you, I do not like you and so on, too hurt feelings! You can say, in fact, I also hope to be able to say this to you, but I can not lie, although this is also cruel enough, but the other party can immediately understand what you mean, it is not too hurtful. It’s much better to be direct than those who drag their feet, equivocate, die without making their attitude clear, and mess with giving people hope.
2. Send him a nice guy card
Send him a long nice guy card, but of course it doesn’t really mean Not really let you give him a card, but you can sincerely tell him that you really like the feeling of being with him, very comfortable and relaxed, as a friend of the opposite sex is really rare, but you pay more attention to the friendship between you, there is no feeling of love, do not come to electricity must let him know, so that it is good for the friendship between you. You know that some people are really only good for friends, and as soon as they become lovers, they change their tune.
3. Not sure how you feel
If you’re not really good at It’s not good for either party to tell him you’re not sure how you feel and don’t want to start a relationship about it. The most subtle and least damaging phrase, but there is a certain risk that the other side is likely to see a glimmer of hope, so that you can launch a more intensified attack, if you are so little good feeling, there may be a smooth development into a relationship, but if you do not have that intention, it is easy to become your obsession.
4: I want a low key relationship
I often see The kind of high-profile confession, although it looks romantic, but many people do not like high-profile, in the case of your unpredictable and unprepared sudden confession, or joint friends to come together a surprise, such a confession is actually very high risk, it is likely that the other party is forced to pressure or sudden surprise scared overwhelmed, not moved in the slightest, in this case he really is not your favorite person, directly with him that you want a The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want.