The most difficult part of marriage is between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and many families break up because of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
One, respect your mother-in-law and give her a smile more often
You should know that Although your mother-in-law did not raise you, she raised your husband with great pain and suffering. Since you love your husband, you have to understand how a son feels about his mother, and you have to join him in respecting his mother.
Many mothers-in-law have the taste of parents and like to educate their daughters-in-law about nothing. You will also be angry with yourself. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Two, understand your mother-in-law and listen to her chatter
Senior citizens are afraid of being alone. The way many young daughters-in-law treat their mothers-in-law is to respect and stay away, but we are all under the same roof, can you afford to hide? Everyone has an old age, not to mention she is still your favorite husband’s mother, so you have to understand the mind of your mother-in-law, nothing to chat with your mother-in-law, let her chatter a few words in front of you, listen to her talk about raising her son is not easy, the son grows up little by little. In the process of your listening you also have to echo: “Mom, it’s really not easy for you, we will definitely be filial to you.” You want her to feel that you and she are a close and loving family.
Three, be considerate of your mother-in-law and care more about her life
Treat your mother-in-law When you buy something for your own mother, you must remember to buy one for your mother-in-law as well. It’s okay, care more about your mother-in-law’s daily life, see if she’s cold or hot? Ask her what she wants to eat. What do you want to do? No matter if you are sincere or not, you still have to do it superficially, and know that the words that come out of your mouth, your mother-in-law often cares a lot. Most mothers-in-law want their sons to live happily ever after, and will not be willing to spend a lot of your money, while a little bit of your care and attention she will take to heart.
Fourth, tolerate your mother-in-law and accommodate her faults more
When you step into the door of this home, you and your mother-in-law become a family. Not only you, but many daughters-in-law think their mother-in-law treats them as outsiders, always speculating, blaming or abusing them in their hearts for no reason, all treating their mother-in-law as an ingrate or even an enemy.
When we stand on the sidelines, we will find that those bad mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationships, both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are at fault. In fact, people and people who get along, if they are prone to conflicts and easily aggravated, are often not very generous and lack tolerance, which naturally makes it easy to The small things turn into big things and intensify the conflict.
In real life, there are always small frictions between in-laws and daughters-in-law living together, and occasionally an unpleasant word, an unpleasant thing that makes you unhappy, will pass, don’t always take it to heart. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
V. Be considerate of your mother-in-law’s feelings
Many daughters-in-law The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. happy? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Six: Be filial to your mother-in-law and put yourself in her shoes
Everyone who is a mother-in-law wants her daughter-in-law to be a part of the family. The mother-in-law wants her daughter-in-law to be filial to her, so you must treat your mother-in-law as your own mother from the heart, nothing more than to ask her for advice on how to make her husband’s favorite dishes; send some small seasonal gifts on her birthday and New Year’s Day; take note of what she likes to eat and buy it back from time to time to give her a surprise, so that she can feel your love for her precious son and let her think from the bottom of her heart that you treat her as You have to be filial to your own mother. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Mother-in-law is not a mother, and you can’t treat your mother-in-law like your own mother, but the minimum respect and understanding of the family together is necessary.