Most of the year, I fought hard to catch Tang Chi, but in the end, I came up empty-handed. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product, which is a new product for the company.
Sometimes I think our genders are reversed
Tanchi and I met last year when we were learning to drive. I met him when I was learning to drive. As soon as we met, I was attracted by his sunny appearance, and more valuable is that he is also funny and knowledgeable. I was in love with him, but I learned that he already had a girlfriend, so a wave of loss came, I had to suppress that love. The day I got my driver’s license, a group of people went to celebrate, chatting in the process I got a good news, Tang Chi has broken up with his girlfriend. That night he offered to take me home, the thing that I wanted to do, I naturally agreed. We talked a lot, including about our respective pasts.
He and she were college sweethearts. She was a strong woman type of girl who went to Beijing to join a big company as soon as she graduated, and he stayed in Jinan to wait for her to come back and get married, but her family didn’t think his job was good enough. After working hard, he got into the civil service, but she still refused to get married and took up with other men behind his back …… Listening to him talk about this, I was quite heartbroken and wished I could have a chance to love him properly.
That’s how smoothly we fell in love. The first time I saw him, I was a typical good girl who came home on time before 9pm and never set foot in some crazy entertainment places like bars, while he was very good at playing, mahjong, billiards, swimming, Karaoke …… were all necessary items every week. During that time, I followed the beat of Tang Chi, began to black and white, although not much stay up women fierce a stay up will be very haggard, but not tried something is always very new.
Tanchi treats me well, and although his salary is not high, he often gives me gifts. He is also very careful, unlike me, he does not mind this, and always for my carelessness caused by the trouble “wipe the ass”. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
I cherish this relationship, so I try very hard to accommodate him. For example, men love to talk big, every time he speaks, I pretend not to know the look of patience and adoration to listen; when he is careful, I also repeatedly tolerate him, coax him. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
The harder I try, the less I can catch him
Trying like this, I still I found that we were getting farther and farther apart, and he began to avoid my hand when we went shopping, and he began to find excuses to put off when we asked him out to play. Until one day he told me, “Next week the leader is sending me to Shanghai to study for 3 months.” I thought I should figure out why he was snubbing me like that before he left. After I pressed him repeatedly, he said his family didn’t approve of the two of us dating, that they didn’t think it was a good fit, that even his friends didn’t like me, and that he himself thought I might not make a good wife in the future ……
When he said this, I felt simply aggrieved to death. I tolerate him and cater to him like this, and he thinks I might not be a good wife! He said he was leaving for 3 months and didn’t want to hold me up. I interrupted him and asked him if he still had feelings for me. In fact, as long as he said the word “yes”, I can wait, wait for him for 3 months, if it still does not work, then give up at that time is not sorry.
Tanchi came back once while he was away studying, and I learned that his ex-girlfriend had also come back from Beijing at that time. He said his mom really wanted him to get together with his ex-girlfriend, so as soon as she heard his ex-girlfriend was back she called him back. When I asked him if he was planning to get back together with her, he answered very vaguely. I held back my sadness and said a blessing, then asked him to come get the things he had left with me earlier.
But, after the meeting, Tangchi’s attitude was completely different. He said, “Let’s make up, I still want to be with you. But if in the future I am forced by authority to listen to my parents, please don’t hate me.” When I heard him say the word “reconciliation,” I agreed almost without thinking, because I didn’t miss him at all, and I had been holding out hope for the time he was gone. Of course, my friends around me warned me not to be fooled by him, saying that he was lonely in Shanghai before turning back to me, but I stubbornly believed that Tang Chi was not that kind of scum. I received an accusatory email from his ex-girlfriend
It wasn’t until an email from his ex-girlfriend appeared in my inbox that I began to have doubts about his character. She was very critical of him, and the first thing she said was, “You were not the first episode between him and me.” At this point I knew I had been “cheated on”. When Tang Chi and her acquaintance is the same routine, accusing their ex-girlfriend strong and insensitive, selling pity, to win the girl’s sympathy. Moreover, during the course of their love affair, Tang Chi cheated twice. She admitted that she was a bit strong, but she was bowing down in front of him over and over again.
I showed Tangchi his ex-girlfriend’s emails in their original form. I don’t know who to trust with these two people, but I’d like to trust the man I love. He was full of indignation and said it was his ex-girlfriend’s trick and advised me not to take her on. At the same time, the ex-girlfriend called and texted Tang Chi, and in my face, Tang Chi never hesitated to hang up or just turn off the phone. This, in turn, has earned my trust.
He always gives me hope and then lets me down
Three months later, Tang Chi came back from Shanghai and took me to the house. Tangchi came back from Shanghai and took me to meet his parents. I knew beforehand that his mother disapproved of us, so I was extra nervous that day. The disappointing thing is that after all this time, I still haven’t won his parents’ approval. I wanted to give up, so I proposed to break up. I was so disappointed that I didn’t want to give up.
Then I went out of my way to please his parents, buying clothes, fruit, and texting concerns …… but the results were disappointing. Once again, Tang Chi began to avoid me, cold to me, the first thing to meet is to pick my fault. I would like to know why this is, why all of a sudden again become so inscrutable? But Tang Chi just won’t say. I thought it might be the pressure from his parents, so I proposed to break up again, but my heart’s reluctance made me ask a humble question: “If one day your parents agree, will you come back to me?” He said he would.
Because of his “will”, I waited.
Although we broke up, I knew I hadn’t given up inside, and I often bought things for him to take home to honor his parents, and of course I always prepared gifts for Tangchi. Sometimes, I can’t help but ask, “Do you think we can still make up?” His answer was always ambiguous, giving me vague hope.
But two months after we broke up, I learned that he had made a new girlfriend. One day, I went to look at his tiktok space and found an ID entering very frequently. Chased all the way over there and found out it was a local girl. I learned from his friends, he did make a new girlfriend, has been a long time, he also took her to the unit for dinner. I feel aggrieved and chagrined, what is the previous ambiguity? I called and accused him: “Why didn’t you tell me directly when you had a new girlfriend, but instead kept giving me fantasies? Is it really like my friends say, just to take me through the window period?” His attitude is no longer ambiguous, but will point the finger at me, complaining that I actually went on a blind date two days ago and did not consider his feelings …… But, before I went on a blind date, he has long made a new girlfriend, what qualification does he have to accuse me, pre-emptive only to get rid of me as soon as possible, right?
I’m not even qualified to be a backup anymore
Those days, knowing that After all this, I couldn’t go to work at all, so I ran out to travel. When I looked at the beautiful scenery, I felt I had thought things through, but once I returned to Jinan, I couldn’t help but call him. The company’s attitude has once again changed, he said that before that cruelty is forced by his parents, and now he and his girlfriend have broken up, thinking about the most suitable with me, but it is too late.
I didn’t take him up on it, but to be honest, my heart softened once again and I got my hopes up once more. When I asked him if we could get back together, he still said his parents didn’t approve, but that didn’t mean we couldn’t get together in the end. Indeed, he once again gave me the illusion, but after returning from the trip, I have understood that in fact, he said this is only to use me as a spare tire, but the humble me did not resist, so the default. The first day, I found out that he had deleted my tiktok number, no doubt he had a new love, and I was not even qualified to be a spare tire anymore.
The truth is indeed as I thought, I don’t want to bother him anymore. It’s just that it’s been 3 months now and I can’t get him out of my mind. I dream about him every night, often thinking of our time together, his cheating on me, his irresponsibility, and that oily ambiguity ……
For a while, I closed myself off, like a different person, without the sunshine I had before. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public, such as the Internet, the Internet, and the Internet.
The New Year is coming soon, and I don’t want to carry all this unhappiness into the next year, I’ve given so much to Tangchi, spent so much time, and in the end got nothing, not even an apology. I should indeed start a new life, only I’m afraid, afraid to fall in love, afraid to give, afraid to get hurt ……