Why would a woman want to reform a man? Because when two people live together, they inevitably bump into each other because of their different habits. So couples are often impatient to change each other’s habits to suit their own lifestyle.
But men’s vices are not something you can just change. For example, smoking and drinking, indeed there is no benefit, men also know this reason, but men can not leave it. Women have to do everything possible to transform it, and even take it as a love rival to see, under the full work, riveting, but in fact the man under the sky that smoke is still smoking, the drink is still drinking, so much so that some people say “men do not smoke or drink, and women do not grow a beard can be painted equal”. The woman’s transformation efforts are all in vain.
Many women admire Hillary, thinking that this tough woman, who single-handedly built Clinton, not only picked him out of a bunch of guys at Yale and took the initiative to pursue him, but also helped him get elected president, is a great credit. But in the end, her downfall is obvious to all, Clinton hitched a ride with Lewinsky, with a peachy “zippergate” to return his dear wife. It is said that Hillary later lamented in a speech to a women’s organization: Never try to reform a man, the result of reform is like yourself – not only does the man not appreciate it, but he feels that everything is the result of his own efforts, and your efforts are likely to let another woman pick up a ready-made!
So women, instead of putting in the effort and energy to do this thankless task, why not work on yourself and let the man try to improve himself because of your perfection, at least he will end up saying you were the driving force behind his efforts OR getting better.