Confucius has a cloud: only small women are difficult to raise.
Confucius said: “Only a small woman is difficult to raise.”
Anyone can’t offend a woman, if a man makes a woman hate him, whether you are his husband or his own father, there is more than 80% chance of a big disaster, because women don’t retaliate.
Women’s vengeance is terrible not in its power, but in the way, the most fundamental point is that they are more covert, indirect, continuous and thorough than men. So here I list eight common ways that women retaliate against their husbands so that men can experience firsthand how scary women can be.
The first way: spending your money, straight to the point where you lose it.
The woman who uses this kind of revenge is mostly a little wise and loves to save face, but it is difficult to self-control the psychology of revenge after being hurt. Just think, the man did something wrong to me, I really can not swallow this, from now on how to look at him how disgusting. Directly hit it, is unable to beat him; go to his parents and leaders, their own face is not light; to find a man outside well, their own nature is traditional, but also can not take this step …… such as all kinds, can choose the best way to retaliate is to spend a lot of his hard-earned money, spend his heartache, spend his initiative to find himself begging for mercy. The best way to choose to retaliate is to spend a lot of his hard-earned money, spend it to his heart’s content, spend it to his initiative to beg for mercy, and if he still won’t show it, then simply how much he has I will spend until he spends it all.
This kind of revenge, except for the kind of woman who is really sinister and hates you to the bone, is most likely to be difficult to sustain to the end, as long as the man is willing to pull down his face and bravely admit his mistakes in front of her and reform, she is basically willing to give the man a chance. The actual fact is that the fundamental intent of spending your money is to get the best out of you. In fact, the fundamental intention of spending your money is still to let you spend money to buy a profound lesson, rather than in revenge, but also in discipline.
The second way: spill the beans and run away from home.
There are two types of women who use this type of revenge: one is young and likes to throw a child’s temper tantrum when she encounters frustration in exchange for her husband’s compromise. The second type is through years of marriage, has been disappointed in the husband.
The first kind is easy to solve, the man simply throw his head down and admit his mistake to her, and then tell a joke to make her laugh, she will simply go home with you in a few days; the second kind is not easy to solve, they mostly listen to too many men after making mistakes sweet words, every time after the wrong, give him the opportunity to correct, but after the change is still committed, and intensified, such men they have no hope, the best way is not to see not bothered, mess with you can not afford, I can not hide? You are not willing to divorce it? The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things.
The third way: scolding the kids
This type of revenge is used by Most of them are women who are in distress and whose husbands don’t care about their families. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
She loves to save face, she will not go outside to cry; she is filial and strong, she will not be abusive to the elderly; she is family-oriented, she will not spend money casually, and the most pitiful thing at this time is the child, in their view, the child is born by themselves, and is the only one in the world she can completely The only person in the world that she has the power to scold and discipline. The most important thing is that the child is the only person in the world who has the power to scold and discipline. They don’t allow the child to disobey them in the slightest, or they can easily think of the child’s deadbeat father who left the family behind, and they can’t help but use the child as an object of venting.
This kind of revenge is the result of the contradiction between a man who does not fight and a woman who cares about her family and loves to save face. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
The fourth way: “Abuse” your family.
This type of retaliation is most often used by weak, uneducated, but resentful women. They mostly have a strong macho husband who even likes to move force, generally her husband no matter what wrongdoing and bad things he did at home and outside, she did not dare to say a word, but this does not mean that they really submit in their hearts, as for looking for men outside and quarrel, they do not dare, and the money, most of them have been completely controlled by men, so they look for men’s parents to take offense, men The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem of the elderly.
This kind of revenge is the result of long-suffering men’s bullying, on the one hand, women are not able to resist and change the status quo, so they can only suffer in silence, on the other hand, they also lack a certain cultural literacy, can not understand ” The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
The fifth way: cheating and giving you a few more cuckolds.
The majority of women who use this type of revenge are due to men having affairs outside looking for women to make it happen, they think: can you man outside to get laid? Modern society is equal for men and women, since you are unfaithful to me, I will be unchaste to you, outside the rare I have a lot of men, you are not always playing with other people’s wives? The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers.
This kind of retaliation, in any case, is not a solution to the problem, the man facing the woman’s retaliation, there are only two kinds of performance: one is to let it go, anyway, I also play outside, no feelings for you, by you go, both sides do not interfere with each other, fall a quiet; the other is hysterical, you also play outside, no feelings for you, let it go, the two sides do not interfere with each other, fall a quiet; another. One is hysterical, you do not want to live, how dare to give me cuckold, such cases of men that poor self-esteem is gone, it is likely to take a more extreme end of the hand, a little carelessness will be burned.
The sixth way: sexual punishment.
The majority of women who use this form of revenge, thinking: the world’s men are generally black, eating the bowl thinking about the pot, you always like and think about the women outside? Then you simply go to them, don’t touch me later is, don’t take me as a free lunch, starve you two to see how you? The idea of a man touching another woman’s body and then touching himself is disgusting, and refusing to avoid it is a natural expression.
The seventh way: to ruin your reputation and make you lose your name.
Women who use this type of revenge mostly know men very well and are not too proud of themselves. They think: you men do not love to face it? I’ll let you completely lose face; you men are not career-oriented? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
This kind of revenge, women seem to be smart to understand men, but in fact, they are extremely stupid. They did not think in the man did not face at the same time, they also lose face, in the man’s career setback no economic resources, they can also drink the northwest wind? The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem, but only to make the problem worse, as a last resort, this type of revenge is not to use.
While these tricks are used by women to get back at men, it is often the women who suffer the most in this, because the deeper the love, the deeper the hate.