The success of a career is the real success of a man. The man’s success comes from his wife’s persistent support and selfless dedication. As the saying goes, “Behind a successful man, there must stand a great woman,” so let’s talk about what kind of love a man desires from his woman.
1. A woman who gives him a little more respect
“big man”, “big husband”, “big old man”, “small woman”, the “little daughter-in-law” and so on. From these titles, we can see that a man, from the beginning to the end of the family in the core position. From ancient times to the present, the Chinese family model is “male dominant, female dominant”, so people usually refer to women as the “inner man”, “bitch inside”, or
So women should not fight for power with men in the family. It is better to give up the family sovereignty to the man, let the husband have more self-respect, let him be a decent man in front of and behind people, at home and outside. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these. Don’t let your husband heroic shortage, do a “gasbag” or “loser”. Men are women’s head of the day, men are the backbone of the family, this position is irreplaceable by women. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
2. Women who give him a little more trust
Large is to say that men have their own careers, while the small ones say that men have to provide for their families. For the sake of the family, they have to constantly work outside, they have to deal with different gender, different age, different status of all kinds of people. As a wife, to fully trust their husband, do not have to suspect their husband and which woman more than a word; also do not have to worry about how he always do not come home? If he says he is busy, you should believe that he is really busy and never suspect that he is lying to you. Even if you call his phone and hear that he is in a fancy hotel, you have to be convinced that he is a normal social gathering and not looking for another dash. As a wife, don’t be suspicious and don’t ask questions of your husband. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
3. Women who give him a little more tolerance
Let you be tolerant, more The reason is that your husband has flaws, mistakes, or has done something wrong to you. This tolerance, from my own point of view, is really easier said than done. The first thing you need to do to be forgiving is to be calm and sensible.
Women are mostly emotional, a little less than what they want, they can not control their feelings, playing their own capricious and small temper. Coupled with the woman’s belly is not broad enough, whenever her husband is sorry, they think they are the most unfortunate people under the sky; is the biggest victim; is the most painful people. For this reason, because of aggression and bent on getting justice for themselves, even to the point of intensifying the trouble. The most important thing is that it is not only the husband who is forced to take the path of desperation.
The one who knows what’s right is the one who knows what’s right. Even if your husband has really done something wrong, you must think about it calmly, weigh the pros and cons, and grasp the degree of argument with your husband. As the saying goes, there is a needle in the sheep’s clothing and a softness to overcome the hardness. As a wife may wish to give her husband a little more forgiveness and tolerance. Your forgiveness, will make him moved, will make him feel guilty. The only way to redeem yourself is with guilt; and the only way to reciprocate is with gratitude.
4. A woman who gives him a little more care
Caring for a man It’s not just about keeping him well-fed and clothed, but most importantly, caring for his inner world. It is important to fully understand what your husband really needs and what he really likes. It’s not about being accommodating, it’s about allowing your husband to truly realize his desires and values.
If a woman, throughout her life, does not read her husband, then she is truly a sad woman. If a woman, you say what your husband wants to say, make what your husband wants to do, what your husband wants, you let him get it. I don’t think the husband is going to go outside to find satisfaction again.
Interaction between people is mainly about heart-to-heart communication, and this is especially true between husband and wife. Heart to heart, not only by the tacit understanding between the two, but mainly the woman’s insight into the man’s inner world. The first thing you need to do is to have a woman’s keen observation, careful perception and the right time for a heart-to-heart.
5, give him more understanding women
Men also have men’s The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of services to its customers. As a wife, learn to understand their husbands, when a woman married to a man, you must bear in mind that they are not only married to him as a single person, and married to the man behind the whole background. You have to take the initiative to treat themselves as an important member of the family, seriously fulfill their due responsibility, do not have to care about personal gains and losses. In fact, the same family, who gets the same, and once lost, it is the loss of the entire family.
To understand your husband is to give him a stepping stone to cross the obstacles in his path; to understand your husband is to give him an umbrella to shield him from the wind and rain. To understand your husband is to give him more compassion; to show him more mercy; to give him more support.