These days, I believe women are apprehensive in their hearts: does he see me or not? What kind of girl am I in his heart? Will this relationship continue?
In addition to the apprehension, women also have fantasies and expectations: the next date, I must let him take me somewhere; after being with him, I hope he still treats me as he does now; if we had found him at the beginning, we would have been happy long ago, right? ……
In fact, these psychological manifestations could not be more common.
A hunter can’t go straight to his prey after firing a shot, what if he misses? Similarly, in a relationship, a woman can’t expect a man to pounce on her like crazy after the first date. You have to adopt a more effective strategy to make a man’s heart more confused and make their relationship more solid.
1. Texting
If you’ve never been good at verbalizing. If there are topics on a date that you shy away from, if you find that something doesn’t come out quite right on a date and calling him out on it is too much of an uproar, then texting more than makes up for those shortcomings.
For example, text messages aren’t instant, and you don’t have to reply to him immediately after he sends one, which gives you enough time to prepare and think, making the reply humorous and clever. The other person can’t see your eyes or movements when you send or receive a text message, so some nice words and cute emoticons can be enough to cover up your lack of expression.
Also, you can use text messaging to express your feelings boldly, and many things that are hard to say in person can be said in text messages, such as asking the other person if they are beautiful or how they feel about you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
2. twitter
Of course, you can chat with him on MSN, or you can also chat with him on Twitter. You can chat with him on MSN, or you can chat on top of other IM tools (instant messengers), it’s just that this type of chat represents a way of communicating – a conversation without meeting and verbalizing.
The advantages of text messaging are basically all there, but the only difference is that twitter chat is more homey and casual, so you can talk about your childhood, your youth, your experiences, and if you feel like you haven’t finished yet, or if there’s something you didn’t say when you met, you can talk about it. If two people feel like they’re not finished after meeting, or if there’s something they didn’t explain when they met, you might want to choose this chat to get to know each other better.
3. twitter
Whether it’s twitter, Kaixin, twitterspace, or other Happy, twitterspace, or other social networking sites are great platforms for communication and networking, and it’s perfect to use them to launch a relationship offensive.
When you want to give him an account, you can remove some of your previous “bad” statuses or logs, or you can intentionally disclose some photos that show your attractiveness. The first thing you can do is to use your online image to make a good impression, and to learn more about who he is in real life through his online identity.
Once he knows who you are online, you learn to use these tools to express your feelings to your heart’s content. When the mood is bad, send a few complaints, and then wait for him to take the initiative to comfort; lonely and isolated, send a few sentences of love, and then wait for him to flirt; of course, when he is depressed and frustrated, you should also take the initiative to send maternal care. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
4. Gifts
Since ancient times, smart women have used gifts The first thing you need to do is to get a gift from a woman to express your love politely. The man’s heart is also excited and complicated when he receives a gift from a woman, seeing that his efforts have paid off, and it is an urge to give more to her.
At the beginning of a relationship, the key for a woman to give a man a gift is to express her feelings in a subtle and gentle way, with gifts that symbolize good love and a sweet marriage being the first choice. Nowadays, many businesses on the market offer simple hand embroidery, cell phone chains that require weaving to complete, and small pendants with DIY patterns and text as gifts, and these are all good choices.
5.5. Friends
If your work or life intersects with theirs, this method works very well. Then this method works very well.
The image of yourself and how you feel about him may be suspect if you explain it to him directly, but he can easily believe it when it comes from someone else’s mouth. It’s like the sales pitch for some roadside item, even if the salesman says it’s good, you may ignore it; however, if many people say the item is good, you begin to be moved; among them your friends are buying it, then you are sure to be convinced.
Many ideas that you can pretend to reveal inadvertently to his friends, and then convey to him through his friends, are definitely much more effective than if you express them directly yourself. Likewise, you can learn more about the other person through a close friend, such as how he feels about himself, what he thinks of himself, whether he wants to go further with himself, and so on.
6. Jealousy
If he treats you the same as usual after the date, treating you the same as everyone else. If he treats you like everyone else after the date, then you might want to step it up a notch and make him a little jealous.
See you with another guy, and he’ll somewhat realize that you’re not really in his life, and your relationship hasn’t gone that far. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem.
Hunters hunt not only with shotguns, but also with traps and hounds; fishermen catch fish not only with nets, but also with harpoons and cormorants. The above-mentioned offensive is not for women to express their love directly, but to sidetrack and start from many aspects to capture men’s hearts more easily and safely.