A survey report with the keyword “third party” shows that nearly half of those who cheat have a bachelor’s degree or higher, and the age of 35-45 is the main group, because most people in this age group The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to meet the needs of its customers, including the following: (1) the “seven-year itch”, when the third party is most likely to take advantage of the situation and cheat on middle-aged men in terms of economic income, social status has reached a certain level, vulnerable to external temptation.
The report analyzes the nodes of high incidence of third parties: men whose wives are pregnant and during childbirth are prone to seek third parties; men who are experiencing serious career setbacks are prone to seek support or catharsis through extramarital affairs once they have no solace at home; men who have made irreparable mistakes, such as domestic violence, gambling, and so on. The man has done irreparable wrong, such as domestic violence, gambling huge losses, etc. caused by the spouse’s injury, based on a strong sense of revenge is also easy to trigger women to look for extramarital affairs; long-term separation of the couple, either party is easy to look for extramarital affairs to make up for life.
After an encounter with a third party, more than 80% of women will mainly fight the third party and hold on to their marriage, and only a small percentage will end up with a firm divorce.
Small details reveal “third party signals”:
One, often returning late. There’s always a “beautiful” reason for being late. If he says he’s going out one minute, then cancels the appointment the next, but then goes out again the next, that’s a breakthrough.
Two, his attitude toward the third party has changed. He used to scoff at the third party, but now he excuses his best friend’s affair, a change that should not be taken lightly.
Three, inexplicably being nice to you. Helping you buy clothes, offering to do housework, or even suddenly being incredibly warm to friends and family could be their remedial mentality at work, half out of guilt and half out of cover-up.
Fourth, lipstick marks on clothes, perfume smell. The phone is always out of order. The phone always says “The number you have called is off” or “The number you have called is on hold”.
Men cheat is divided into three situations, one is the wife really did not do well enough, for this reason, the husband in a state of extreme disappointment in the marriage, but because of many factors do not want to divorce, but also had to learn some of their own emotions in extramarital affairs to fill their emotional Inadequate; a situation is and unit colleagues or friends around, because a long time contact, attracted to each other by a certain trait, staged a long time, or on a business trip together, because of loneliness, interpretation of a one-night stand; another way to cheat when the heart of the flowers, that is, even if the wife then do impeccable, can not stop him that cheating heart. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
So, what kind of perverse behavior does a man have after cheating?
One, always complain in front of his wife about not having enough money to spend.
According to traditional Chinese etiquette, when a man and a woman are together, basically the man is responsible for all the expenses of food and drink, which means that when a man cheats on his wife, he naturally has to spend an extra piece of his daily expenses than usual. In China, the family financial power is basically controlled in the hands of women, when a man cheated, and the romance between the mistress is naturally an expense that can not be ignored, that is, when the man came home complaining about the money is not enough to spend or simply no longer to the wife on the state of the salary appears, as a wife, you should be careful, because your husband is likely to have cheated on you.
Two, the excuses for not coming home on time are becoming more and more frequent.
A man is allowed to work overtime, but suddenly one day it will seem abnormal for a man to work overtime more and more times a week. Even if the man is not working overtime as an excuse, but to socialize as an excuse to come home later and later, it should also draw the woman’s attention. The woman does not have to sulk with the man, but to take advantage of it, to a deadly request for her husband to take himself involved in his so-called social, if her husband is happy to take you along, that is indeed the work adjustment to meet some new friends, if her husband dodged your request, it will be a red flag.
Three, your phone stays in your hand and on silent when you get home.
Lovers need to contact each other in time, because the heat is not over, naturally have endless love talk, for this reason, once the man cheated, home will be cell phones do not leave their hands, and habitually every few minutes will steal a glance at the phone, of course, the At the moment, men’s cell phones usually remain silent state, after all, cheating people will have the psychology of a thief’s heart, afraid to be heard by his wife. Men think they have done so called a seamless, in fact, you have long been the wife of this behavior to see the bottom. In fact, men do not want to go home after the phone does not leave the hand, the key is not to reply in time to the third party’s text messages, the next day will be the third party questioning, make the third party angry. The man’s approach is a bit of a cover-up.
Fourth, the couple’s sex life is significantly reduced.
Human energy is limited, and when a man dedicates his ‘communal food’ to his mistress, he certainly does not have the energy to roll with his wife, and for that reason ‘Tired’ ‘not feeling well’ is the usual excuse for men to put off their wives. If you say, a man from the day of marriage on the ‘not’ understandable, if the man suddenly one day on the ‘not’, which must have fishy. This time the woman should do? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Five, no longer holding back on your wife’s bad habits but being outspoken.
Love is the saying that when a person loves someone, he can tolerate each other’s shortcomings and also each other’s bad temper, but of course, this tolerance will also have a degree. If you say as a wife domineering, then it is the wife dereliction of duty, if the wife is only occasionally small nature, the husband does not want to tolerate, and even outspokenly point out the shortcomings of the woman, then, that the man’s heart has been an emotional substitute, this time the man’s heart is all third-party good, naturally to their wives crossed noses and eyes. The first thing a woman should do is to correct her inherent flaws, and then wake up her cheating husband, if not for his awakening, divorce is not negotiable.