In fact, men and women are the same; infidelity is about satisfying one’s lust. Some say lust is the desire to satisfy one’s own soul; love is the desire to satisfy someone else’s soul. Although infidelity is a possible problem for both men and women, tightening one’s belt is certainly more of a bigger problem and test for men. We all know that the problem is not who is the other person? Why did it happen? Or where does the prolonged caressing take place? The end result of infidelity is often the death sentence of the relationship. Instead of going into endless detail about what happened after the infidelity occurred, it’s better to take the time to understand why men do what they do in order to stop the fornication from happening as much as possible. I’m not looking for excuses for them, but just to explain what changes are going on in their heads? So that people can possibly prevent it from happening. Here are the common reasons.
Meeting their biological needs
According to the old anthropological saying , men’s main job, besides killing those fierce animals, is to spread their seed widely to ensure that their genetic superiority is passed on from generation to generation. This is what men’s biological instincts want, but are men destined to be unfaithful? Biological instincts do not mean that they should or cannot do otherwise, and the path is certainly not open. But it does mean that a man controlled by an extremely strong biological impulse is likely to knock on his neighbor’s door in the middle of the night. Men are not entirely driven by their biological impulses, and they will struggle with such impulses from time to time, especially after some of their blows and retribution.
Attraction of attention
Some men are unfaithful because the marital The frequency of sex declines, and a passionate and enthusiastic sex life no longer exists; however, many men are unfaithful despite having a full and wonderful marital sex life, and why is this? Because infidelity is not necessarily about sex. Just as some women are unfaithful because they are seeking affection that they cannot get within marriage, men are unfaithful because they are seeking attention that they can no longer get within marriage. The allure of those mysterious women comes not from the potential attraction of their physical bodies, but from their unintentional flirtation, their endless charm, and their ability to make men feel valued, which can certainly trump the aesthetic fatigue of marriage.
Breaking Free
Many men may want to break free because they are unhappy. to break free from the cage, but they are incapable of ending the marriage because they don’t want to be thought of as fools or thin-skinned men who have ruined a good home or are scorned for starting and ending a marriage. They may also try some sort of get-out strategy, so they will handle such disputes carefully, hoping that the woman will not be overly hit or even betray the marriage in the first place (don’t cuckold yourself). If nothing can be accomplished, the only way for the man to get out of the marriage is to take the blame for breaking it up, which will make the woman have to leave and find her own future. This is not a good strategy, but it happens all too often. Let the song list change from time to time – Everyone has a few favorite songs that they hang on to from time to time, but we do occasionally switch things up and sing something else for half the month. Married life also needs such a routine, habit becomes nature, but change is always needed, especially if there are some sudden surprises while sitting in the rhythm of their daily life, that is certainly exciting enough. This means that the “song list” needs some variation, both inside and outside the bedroom.