Since ancient times, heroes have been paired with beauties, and the four great beauties of China – Xishi, Miao Cicada, Wang Zhaojun and Yang Yuhuan – have been with either the emperor or the general. These four beauties, arguably the most equipped and play a “sexy capital” of the woman. The first of these is a delicate face.
“Sexy capital” is not superficial, it’s rich: beauty, sexual attractiveness, playfulness, social skills, sex, self-presentation skills. This is a broad sense of sexy. You can understand it this way: you are running your image, so as to give each other influence, is a kind of external comprehensive strength, or is the emanation of external comprehensive strength. Sexy is not just big breasts, legs and buttocks. “Sexy capital” in the sexy, of course, is sexy, as a woman, sexy is the full distribution of female gender seductive power. That is as gentle as water, pampering and whining, etc.. Of course, this is not enough, revealing a little is sexy, all naked is selling meat. So, the content of sexy capital also includes how you go about showing your sexiness.
Exquisite face plus sex appeal plus self-presentation skills, then it will make men leave not her. For example, Yang Yuhuan. She was born beautiful, the Tang Dynasty to fat for beauty, Yang Guifei slightly fat body type, white skin and plump, the new gravitational force of sex speaks for itself, naturally the Tang Xuanzong charmed five fascination; she is proficient in music, good at singing and dancing, and good at playing the pipa, such a specialty will also make her charm. The reason for this is that Yang Guifei was pampered by the emperor for so long is that she had the capital and the ability to do it, because her sexy capital was more abundant.
Nowadays, even though society has opened up to the point where “sex” is no longer taboo, the word “sexy” is still mentioned with a despicable tone. still carries a despicable derogatory meaning. More formed “beautiful women are successful by selling sex” this discriminatory concept, resulting in many women prefer to let people say they are not beautiful, but also do not praise their sexy. In fact, “sexy” is not the regional GDP, that area “red light flashing”, not in the office to show cleavage to show off sexy, nor in social occasions to scratch the head, not only means the bedroom attraction. For personal success, sexy capital and economic capital, educational capital and interpersonal capital is equally important a necessary capital. Don’t say that beautiful women can only do vases, seemingly vases should not have an intelligent mind? The show business Fan Bingbing, the beautiful and quite flamboyant, known as the vixen woman, is really just a vase? I do not see necessarily, it is reported that Fan Bingbing has only made money since the establishment of the studio. In this regard, Andy Lau is also ashamed of himself, because back then Andy Lau was lost a blood money! With this alone, we must admire the beautiful face of Fan Bingbing that is full of wisdom of the mind. So, to get ahead in today’s competitive society, as a woman you, in addition to the importance of economic capital, educational capital and interpersonal capital, but also to train themselves to have a unique sexy capital.
1.Beauty: an exquisite face.
I believe most women would say with low self-esteem: there is no way to have beauty in this life. In fact, this statement precisely shows that you misread the word beauty. Yes, the most straightforward beauty is the face that can make people fall in love at first sight, see again, or at least make people feel stunning in the crowd. However, the external beauty will gradually age with the fading of youth. The real lasting beauty is the face that you take care of, with unparalleled refinement, with a unique personal temperament. The two most important things we need to cultivate are the eyes and the smile, which have nothing to do with beauty but can be captivating!
2. Sexualattractiveness: a seductive body with individuality and style.
Sexual attractiveness? Did that come to mind all of a sudden? This is your fault again. In this world, there are only two advanced species, men and women, and sexual attraction should not only attract the opposite sex, but also the same sex. The body that is attractive in sexual attraction is not the big breasts that modern people think are attractive. It is the personal charm that emanates from within. In terms of dressing, have your own unique personal characteristics and style. The most important thing is that you can be the most special one in the eyes of others, and a special person will always be remembered!
3. Socialattractiveness: Social skills that combine elegance and charm.
One good man has three helpers, in other words, it is very difficult for a person to succeed, even if he or she is capable, to reach the desired goal. Therefore, how the person’s social relations, and the success or failure of your career is inextricably linked. Of course, you may say that you just want to be an ordinary person and don’t need the success and fame of your career. But in real life, even if you are just an ordinary person, you have to go to work, right? When you go to work, you have colleagues and subordinates and interpersonal relationships to manage. You may say, I am not an important person in the unit, then well, even so, you always need to have a good relationship with so many people in the same office you! Of course, even if you are just a housewife, there are still neighbors, as the saying goes, distant relatives are better than close neighbors, good neighborly relations also help your life! In short, we humans cannot become solitary animals, and the influence of good or bad social skills on one’s life and career when living in a group cannot be underestimated!
4. Liveliness: physical fitness, social activeness, and humor.
Do you want to be with someone who is all over the place or would you rather be with someone who is dull and dead? Do you like to talk with someone who has a sense of humor, or would you rather talk with someone who is dull and dead? The answer is obvious, and I believe most people choose the former. So let yourself be a person with boundless energy and a sense of humor! Even if you’re a woman, that doesn’t stop you from having a sense of humor and flexing your humorous instincts!
5. Presentation (Instrumentation): A stylish look with a personal touch.
Presentation is the absolute rule for a woman to be glamorous. Fashionable dress? Isn’t it a bit surprising? Yes, it is fashionable dressing, even if you are over 40 years old, it is not a reason for you to dress old fashioned. In fact, fashion is not so out of place in your eyes, depending on how you match, to create a charming woman with personal characteristics! At this point, if you think you’re out of your depth, you can hire a color consultant to help you and teach you how to apply your daily makeup!
6. Sexuality: the ability to love.
By the way, here’s where we get to the “sex” that’s in your head. Many women don’t care about this and think that sexuality is only about men. If you have this idea, I can only guess that you are a sex life is not very satisfied with that one. In fact, a know some sexual skills, learn to please men to make him more effort to give you a satisfactory sex life of the woman, even if she does not have a good look, no proud body, no successful career, will eventually become the most sexy in the eyes of men. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who have been in the business for a long time, and they’ve been in the business for a long time.
Editor’s Note: Sexy capital” is something everyone can have. The face you can shape through makeup, through microplastic or plastic surgery to adjust the sculpture, the other five elements, but also through hard work and persistence to achieve. Of course, a smart woman will use the “sexy capital” as a door knocker. It is also a kind of capital that can be invested and high return. For women, in fact, part of your “sexy capital” need to develop and activate themselves, when you learn how to use the “sexy capital”, that basic invincible, as for learning how to use, that is to rely on wisdom. The first thing you need to do is to use your “sexy capital”, otherwise it’s a waste.