The 13th, Li Yapeng Wang Fei exposed to divorce news, the two sides in Xinjiang for divorce procedures, have returned to Beijing. The two of them did not mention a word about the change of marriage. 14 night at 10:00, had interviewed Li Yapeng on the program “Chief Night Talk” host Lejia released tiktok long article “my eyes of Li Yapeng”, said “Wang Fei’s name to him must have brought a lot of psychological heaviness in the past, in my opinion, this is The company’s first-ever “The New York Times”, which was released in January, is a new version of “The New York Times”.
Le Jia said Li Yapeng is “simple, sincere, outspoken and a man of nature” and that “in front of an unfamiliar audience, the red, joyful and enthusiastic side is not obvious. I personally think he is not a good businessman”, “Fortunately, he was clear early on that he had no ambition to act, nor did he have the will to develop in front of the aura of the screen for a long time, he knew what he liked and what he wanted to do in his heart.”
Legacy hinted that “strong women and weak men” could be a major cause of marital problems, “Of all the conversations with Yapeng, the one that moved me the most was the one about property independence, where he said, ‘This is my way of keeping my dignity. ‘” Lejia also said, “In fact, people are happy or not and we have nothing to do with it, because everyone’s happiness or not only know themselves, people are happy does not mean you are happy. And then in fact, the breakup sometimes represents the beginning of happiness, but we just can’t accept it for the time being.”
There are three types of strong women and weak men
The strong women and weak men marriage model is indeed more prone to divorce than other marriage models. Because this society still tends to have a male dominance in the family at the moment, if a strong woman and a weak man are the equivalent of reversing the social roles of men and women, this is an anti-tradition both for them and for the onlookers. As a result, they face a little more psychological pressure and a little more instability in their marriages.
One is that women have higher social status or visibility than men, and in this type of family relationship, women have to learn to change their roles, not to be used to ordering people around and coming home with a leadership tone;
Two is that women are more economically capable than men in the family, and here men have to learn to adapt and adjust themselves, not to always put pressure on themselves, and women should not resent the fact that men earn less.
This is the first time I’ve ever seen a woman who has been in a position to be a part of a family.
The first is that the woman is not necessarily stronger than the man in terms of economic and social status.
The first two types of marriages tend to have more crises, while the third type has fewer divorces. Experts explain that in the latter type of family, the man understands the strong character of the woman early on, and some even like or rely on the woman to keep herself under tight control, so the marriage is relatively stable. The first two, on the other hand, may put some psychological pressure on the men.
Men who face such strong wives behave differently, some are proud and worshipful, proud of their wives; some are doubly stressed and indignant; others are circuitous tactics, secretly chasing after them; and others are emotionally transferred ……
Either way, “For this model of marriage where the woman is strong and the man is weak, whether it is happy or not whether it will last or not often depends on the perception of both parties’ view of things and their own personalities.” The more open-minded ones can appreciate their wives, and the optimistic ones can try to improve themselves in other areas so that they always have a place for their wives to admire.
Good balance and courage to face marital crisis
“Strong women and weak men” marriages happen all the time, but if both sides can be psychologically open, understand each other and respect each other, they can still achieve long-lasting marital happiness.
When you slowly feel “down on” your husband, when you slowly feel “disrespected by your wife”, some of the first signs of a marriage crisis may have appeared. The first thing you need to do is to take a positive attitude and use the right approach to deal with the problems in your marriage, rather than waiting until the cracks in your marriage have appeared before you remember to fix them.
Timely communication between couples is essential. Communication is mutual, and only when each takes a step toward the middle can they lean closer. On the basis of communication, it is also necessary to change one’s perception of things and be more open-minded and positive, especially for macho men who learn to accept and slowly change their original perceptions. In addition, couples should have more mutual respect for each other, especially to avoid hurting each other with their words.
In addition, both partners should learn to face the differences with an open and positive mindset and try to find a balance. The first thing you need to do is to find a way to balance your marriage, for example, to improve your ability to give more to your family, or to find a third party to balance your marriage.