A newly married couple always has some friction in their sweetness, how to avoid it at this time? What are the differences between different signs? Here’s a look at it with me.
Minefield 1: Bringing work grievances home
< strong>Attention sign: Taurus
Because of the pressure of work, often bring home the worries and bad feelings at work, so that grumbling and sighing will destroy the warm atmosphere of the family, the last harbor of the family The last harbor of the family will be ruined. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and to provide them with the best possible service.
Minefield 2: The word “divorce” is always on your lips
Attention signs: Virgo, Sagittarius
Some couples argue about things and the next day it’s business as usual, and there are couples who don’t have a nightly feud. Then some couples will be on the line, move not to transport on the mention of divorce, divorce two words actually become a mantra, perhaps once or twice to say a say it does not matter, say more is bound to be very hurt each other’s hearts, afraid that sooner or later the dream will come true. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Minefield 3: Who makes money and who is in charge
Some people think that whoever earns the money is in charge, but that doesn’t have the warmth of a family, and it’s bound to make the family a crisis. It is just a different division of labor, doing housework is also contributing, it may not see the direct economic benefits, but it indirectly creates economic benefits for the family, so couples must take the initiative to think about this issue, in the daily details of some speech and action to pay attention to grasp the proportion, so as not to hurt each other.
Minefield 4: The couple’s division of labor is too clear
< strong>Attention sign: Capricorn
The division of labor between husband and wife should be done in their own specific situation.
Minefield 5: No consultation, just your own pleasure
< strong>Attention sign: Gemini, Aries
A significant difference between marriage and love is of course that life is lived by two people together, and when it comes to events, it is natural for the two of them to consult together, not to engage in a party hall, not to just care about their own pleasure The other party’s thoughts and feelings are not taken into account. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Minefield six: the mother’s family and in-laws are too clearly divided
< strong>Attention sign: Cancer
The husband and wife come from different families, have different family and social relationships, from the bones of people have to maintain their own family selfishness, but the husband and wife should pay attention to mutual understanding, learn to The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Minefield seven: often compare other people of the opposite sex with each other
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Everyone is different, and everyone has their own characteristics, their own excesses. . For couples, the two people who love each other, if you encounter things that do not like each other, some people do not move to take their knowledge of other people of the opposite sex for comparison, so like “look XXX more money”, “look XXX more temperament” and other words are often hanging on the mouth The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Minefield eight: often late or sleepovers for no reason
< strong>Attention sign: Libra, Aquarius
Work is very busy, a lot of social engagements, so late home is common, of course, there is no excuse, there is no need to blame, but must be mastered, especially when it is clear that there is nothing important. The time to be busy is not busy, near the end of the time to open busy, and even more intentionally late; some people do not refuse the invitation of friends, rarely take into account the feelings of their loved ones at home, so that the couple together when dinner together with the opportunity to communicate very little, the long run is bound to affect the feelings of the couple.
Minefield 9: Disregarding the time and occasion to expose each other
< strong>Attention sign: Sagittarius
When couples have a verbal spat, they must pay attention to the time and occasion. For example, in front of each other’s friends and colleagues, in front of their children, couples must be careful to avoid criticizing each other, and even if they have to do so, they must do so euphemistically, so as not to hurt each other’s basic dignity as human beings and hit each other’s self-esteem and hurt the couple’s feelings.
Minefield 10: Demanding each other according to their own habits
< strong>Attention sign: Pisces
After all, husband and wife are two different individuals, from two different families, there are bound to be differences in habits, there are bound to be conflicts in habits, and even some bad habits The two sides of the couple should tolerate and accommodate, can politely point out, but do not blame, should allow each other to have his different, do not necessarily have to each other according to their own pattern to do, to remind, point to point. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.