It is common in life to see love stories that end in a regrettable breakup after years of love. But this is really not the case.
After the start of living with your girlfriend, men will really feel that living together is much better and easier than single life. It’s beautiful and much easier. Men are not as good at communication as women, which makes them often need to bear all kinds of pressure alone, therefore, most men have a natural sense of loneliness. And living together with a woman allows him to relax and melt away his loneliness.
If this lifestyle doesn’t last long enough for him to take it for granted, then he has a desire to stay in it to avoid allowing himself to continue living a single life full of loneliness and anxiety. At this point, marriage is a natural thing to do.
Conversely, if he has been living together for too long, he will gradually feel that living together has many benefits as well as disadvantages (there will be all kinds of conflicts and troubles to deal with), and then his motivation to get married will be weakened (if he gets married, he will be able to get married). Motivation will be weakened (if married only to find that two people living together also have a lot of bad, his mind will be more positive to find ways to solve, unlike the cohabitation of men often think: not to change it! If you’re not a cohabitating man, you’ll want to live together for as long as possible and postpone entering marriage – then it’s better not to get married or to get married to someone else.
Also, the monogamous marriage system was created to guarantee men’s sexual power (in feudal society, rich and powerful men could have three wives and four concubines, and the emperor could have a harem of three thousand beauties, which undoubtedly deprived men who had no money or power of their sexual power). . Time has come to modern society, and there are a number of expert studies that say that marriage leads to longer life and better health for men, but no change for women – not better, but not worse either.
This means that the benefits of marriage are greater for men than for women.
So, as you can imagine, once a couple lives together and enters a kind of married life, it gives the man an early taste of what marriage can bring him: stable and secure sex, a gentle and considerate atmosphere, companionship full of warmth, and a life of living and being The man has already received all these benefits, and as time passes these benefits become deserved and even lose their initial beauty and freshness, so why would he go to all that trouble to get married again and put a straitjacket on himself?