Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, two women who are strangers, live together because they love a man at the same time, and many of the problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are related to this man, so when the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, men can not “do not care about themselves The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problems between the wife and the mother, so that the family can be harmonious and happy.
Take 1: Show the authority of the head of the family
Many families with bad relationships often hear that the mother-in-law is the head of the family.
Many families with bad relationships tend to hear mothers-in-law accuse their sons of “marrying their daughters-in-law and forgetting their mothers, listening to their daughters-in-law everywhere” and daughters-in-law scold their husbands for “protecting his mother in everything and squeezing me together.”……In summary In the case of families with in-law conflicts, both the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law believe that their sons (husbands) are weak and incompetent and cannot take the heat for themselves. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In “The Romance of the Three Kingdoms”, Zhuge Liang said that many times the relationship between friend and foe is changing, it may be a friend today and an enemy tomorrow; similarly, today’s enemy can be transformed into tomorrow’s friend who is fighting side by side. So to deal with the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you need to find the common ground between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so that they forget about the internal conflicts and unite. Obviously, the only thing that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have in common is that they love the same man – themselves. If you “stay out at night”, “have gambling and other bad habits”, want to “leave the house to clear your ears” … . The two of them will automatically shake hands and make peace to deal with the most important “family crisis” together, in the long term side by side, still worry about your mother and your daughter-in-law can not establish a deep revolutionary friendship?
Take 2: Never say who’s at fault
When in-laws and daughters-in-law quarrel, they often drag their husbands in hard to comment. Husbands should not be given an embroidery needle and take it as a mallet, you know that women even when not quarreling are not much reasoning, so do not “just” point out who is at fault. In the eyes of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, pulling you to reason is not the need for a fair judge, but to see whose heart you are looking for? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Tip #3: Be sure to persuade separately
Look at the older women in the neighborhood The more people there are, the stronger the fight is. Women are people crazy, especially not in front of the opponent to show fear, so it is best to persuade the fight separately. Even if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law intend to make up, they should give a step down in private, and it is too difficult to show weakness to each other first in front of the conflict, right? The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.