The responsibilities and obligations in marriage are shattered in the face of the many realities that follow. Do many jobless women have to rely on married, rich men to get ahead? Or that men are not men if they are not horny? Everything about the violation of ethics and morality makes me a little worried about the status quo marriage, but I still believe that marriage is great.
1. Why do women like to marry jerks?
Mix, is a word that people can not see, but many women in their first days of love are still willing to run a bone-chilling relationship with a mixer, perhaps at the beginning of the relationship, women know that such a relationship is just a desire for a moment of pleasure The company is also willing to burst in wholeheartedly, even if they lose badly choose to stay away, but the pattern of behavior will also be fixed in the depths of the heart, and even after marriage for many years, will help to leave an objective position in the heart of the bastard. The reason for this is that the idle hands of the mob can have a lot of time to talk about love, and the characteristics of the mob are just able to meet the vanity of women who like romance.
2. Why is it better to marry a rich man than a poor man?
Too many women can choose to fall in love with a poor man who is good enough for them for love, and when moving towards the procedure of marriage, everything about the reality of life makes the woman feel the poverty of life, and this time it is of course the woman who regrets. Although there are many people in this world have a hatred of the rich mentality, but this mentality is mainly from the deep inside that jealousy. Only those who have truly experienced the baptism of life can appreciate the power of money.
3. Why are couples of many years easily replaced by short-term lovers?
As long as the man is not too much of a wimp and the woman is not too spunky, there is still no divorce after marriage, but there are always things in life that force one of the parties in a marriage to cheat. The social roles undertaken between lovers is more naked physical contact, once the lover appears, the cheating party is full of the merits of the lover and the shortcomings of the lover, this extreme way of thinking often kills a good marriage.
4. Why do you think it is easy to marry someone and hard to get along?
Almost all married people lament that it is just right to be young. They lament not that they are old, but that they have lost their original freedom in the walled city of marriage, and face all kinds of pressure from their lovers, children, and even parents, which sometimes It can be exhausting. The fact that a small problem can lead to a big fight, this impatience does not come from the marriage itself, but is a concentrated expression of the pressure of surviving in this society.
5. Should you love someone and give them everything?
No one can guarantee that the person they marry will be the one they love most, maybe at the moment, but not necessarily still in the future. The scales of marriage will be seriously unbalanced when one partner becomes a burden to the other, and for this reason I must suggest that women in ordinary families must not choose to be full-time wives, yet ordinary families account for 80% of all families in China.
6. Is divorce really a relief?
When there is some damage in a marriage, many people’s first thought is to divorce, which is a normal human reflex, but can divorce solve the fundamental problem? The most affordable option for people is to face the specific problem and make the right remedy. If you can’t solve the fundamental problem, whoever you marry will have the same ending, the charm of being a human being is not to have more people love you for a lifetime, but to be able to keep your lover for a lifetime.
7. How much does a couple fighting affect their children?
It’s normal for couples to quarrel with each other, but there’s an old saying that goes like this: hitting people without hitting their faces and cursing them without revealing their shortcomings, but two people in a marriage will always say the harsh words in their hearts together when they face a heated argument, and they don’t even get tired of it, which For the other party is definitely considered a fatal blow. However, arguing is also an art, and the harder you scold, the better you will get. Children don’t have the ability to judge things better in their formative years, so a couple’s quarrel will only give the child the idea that it’s time to run away from the family.
8. Why do men like to be “tough outside the nest”?
Men are good-looking creatures, many of them smoke 5 yuan cigarettes at home, but for the sake of appearances outside, they will smoke some high-grade cigarettes. Some men are so lazy at home that they don’t want to do anything, but when they go outside they become especially diligent. This is all an illusion of married men. So there will be a wrong judgment, in the eyes of others, he is a good husband, but in the eyes of the wife is also a bit hateful. So too many women will lament: why other families are so happy, while they live so hard. The truth tells such women: every family has a hard time.
9. What is the specific meaning of a house for a marriage?
Houses don’t really mean anything to a marriage, houses are a sense of belonging, and even though many people know that renting is much more affordable than buying in modern cities, why do people still go out of their way to buy a house? The fact is that what people buy with their money is not a house, but a solid.
10. Why are people who rely too much on their vows unhappy?
Women who believe too much in vows are dumb women, vows are just a way to maintain a relationship, do not take all the vows seriously, because you will force men to implement them when you take them seriously, some vows men in their ability to implement. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
We live in reality, we need a realistic mindset towards marriage, marriage is like doing business, people who don’t run a good business feel that marriage is hard, in fact marriage is not hard, what is hard is our unwillingness to take on and share for marriage.