In terms of love, if the man you like starts a passionate and romantic pursuit of yourself, I believe that not many women will refuse, but for the man you don’t like, women are worried, for various reasons, some men can not refuse directly, but do not want to be with him. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services, including
Handout Guide: How to Reject Different Men
1. strong>1. Friend card: Applicable people – teenage boys. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Generally speaking, this type of male is mostly enthusiastic and cheerful, also very passionate, but may be due to the young, less experience, the substance of the economy, career conditions are certainly less than those who have gone through a life of experience of mature men, so unless you have full economic autonomy, looking for a partner just for fun, or away from young men, and young men together to face the reality of the test will be more than with a mature male together to The reason for this is that teenage boys are more superficial, more fluid, and young and frivolous, and rarely adapt to a stable and long-lasting relationship, which of course you can use as a reason to reject.
I suggest that such a “big boy” is a good friend who can bring us a lot of happiness and a joyful state of mind. It’s not worth relying on, but we can give them a “friend card”.
2. Not for cards: For people – flower men. The so-called flower man is the life of the playboy, film and television plays, novels described in the “see a love one, see two love a pair”, of course, they have a lot of beautiful name, such as flower thief, philandering carrot, etc., they are also people like its name, cheating, stealing food everything proficient, experienced to home, estimated that the woman who has played also can circle the globe a few times. This type of man in addition to the game on earth or game on earth, in addition to the three or four in the money or attract butterflies, love freedom and can not give commitment, no sense of responsibility, but also the most afraid of marriage and family bondage. So if you want to reject such men. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Suggestion: this kind of flower man can be directly out, we can directly issue “not suitable for the card”
Suggestion: this kind of flower man can be directly out, we can directly issue “not suitable for the card”
3. Respect card: Applicable people – type of male boss. The designation of type male has only appeared in recent years, and such men are mostly, with attractive external conditions. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. But there are women will be very tough to throw down a “you are not my cup of tea”, on the type of male rejected the door. Of course there must be a reason for this, otherwise beautiful things are anyone will be happy to accept. The actual fact is that if you’ve got a good deal of time, you’ll be able to get a good deal of time, but if you don’t, you’ll be able to reject him by deliberately scandalizing your own requirements, and you’ll be able to know that men are proud and self-absorbed about their appearance.
Advice: If he can change his body and status for you, of course you’ve earned it. If not, you can just issue a “respect card”
4, Brother Card: For people – -Male BFF. The first is that you don’t like him even if he becomes a lover, and one day you will get tired of him, and the second is that if he likes you and you don’t want to hurt him, you will eventually lose him if you keep being ambiguous.
Suggestion: you can politely refuse, you can tell him frankly that you do not want to lose this friend, you can give him a “buddy card”. You can give him a “buddy card”. He will understand your heart.
5, Godfather Card: For people – Uncle. The “uncle” is not only the vicissitudes of age, but also the success and maturity that comes from being weathered. This type of uncle emits the charm of mature men will often make many young girls fascinated. At first you may have admiration for him. Because he knows what you do not know, will produce a sense of security dependence. What are you going to do if an older man confesses his love for you?
I suggest: If you don’t like him but don’t want to lose him, you can tell him, I admire you, but I have a boyfriend. The older man should understand. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The most common phrases to use when rejecting a man
Rejecting a man is not only a matter of sorting them out, it’s also a matter of paying attention to The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
1. I actually wish I could say this to you, but I can’t lie to people anyway ……
1. “TEXT-ALIGN:left;TEXT-INDENT:2em”>It seems a bit harsh to open with this sentence, and it should actually be immediately clear to the other person what your true intentions are as soon as you say it. But there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s easier to start off with a clear statement than to beat around the bush with ambiguity.
2. When I’m with you, I’m relaxed and comfortable, but we just don’t get along.
It’s really rare to meet a friend of the opposite sex that you can completely let go of your guard and get along with naturally, but if you’re too embarrassed to say no because of that, there’s no doubt it’s a wrong move! If you are a person who takes both love and friendship seriously, then you can’t be sloppy when it counts, and it’s important to set the relationship aside, which will also be great for the future direction of your friendships.
3. I don’t think I can give you what you want…
If you’re sure you can’t feel opposite-sex attracted to him, and it’s something other than friends, then tell him the truth a little more directly. A well-meaning lie or silence is not the appropriate response at this point, and know that really brave people dare to face their miserable lives head on ……
4. I’m not entirely sure how I feel right now, and I don’t want to start a relationship hastily.
This is by far the most subtle response and the least damaging to a hopeful confessor. Yet while polite and courteous, the phrase implies a certain risk, and the other person is likely to think there is still hope for success in it.
Otherwise, if you’re patient enough to wait and see and keep trying, there may be a series of persistent advances to follow, and you still won’t really be able to escape the tangled mess of emotions.
But if you’re also on the fence about him and just can’t be clear about what you really think yet, it’s good to leave room in your answer to prepare for the future of your relationship.
5. I want a plain, ordinary relationship, and a flashy, high-profile plot is not for me.
Some people like to use confessions as a surprise to mark the beginning of a relationship, so they will suddenly come out of the blue when you are unprepared and unpredictable, and in the plot they designed you should first be caught off guard and then moved to tears. You should be caught off guard and then moved to tears in the plot they designed, and you end up happily together.
However, reality is often unconventional, and the reality is that you do feel overwhelmed by his confession, but there will be no next move at all. Remember, if he really isn’t your type, this is the time to make sure you first steady your mind and calmly say the words above.
6. I care about you, but I don’t love you.
This is a polite but direct and clear answer to a confession, which not only takes care of the other person’s feelings and makes the situation not too awkward and stagnant, but also clearly expresses your position. It is also very effective as a comfort to let him know how important his place in your heart is.
Same cause, different effect
Networker Xiao Li is an accountant in a company. She has been working conscientiously in the company, and her interpersonal relationship is quite good. Her immediate leader is the head of finance, and she will meet every day when she goes to and from work, and when she reports on her work. One day, his supervisor suddenly asked her out, and after dinner, her supervisor confessed to her. Xiao Li was very calm and said to the supervisor: I also admire you, I know you are very capable, but I think I do not deserve you. Besides, I already have a boyfriend.
After that, the supervisor thought she was a nice girl, and the two became good friends later.
Netizen Ms. Li, a saleswoman in a company, is usually not very talkative, but she is meticulous. Once, the manager of their sales department invited her out to see a movie and confessed to her on the way home. She was very excited and rejected the manager very nonchalantly, and Ms. Li said to the manager: I don’t like you, please don’t pester me in the future.
After that, the manager’s impression of her became very bad. No sooner had she been transferred out.
I think: Don’t be too tough in the face of your boss’s confession. In contrast, the way Xiao Li handled her boss’s confession was more acceptable to her boss. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
Editor’s Note
In real life, we will meet The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.