There is a common phenomenon in life called ‘flip-flopping’, not because men are grumpy, but you moved his dead center. Not all men have the courage to divorce, when there is no capital to mention the divorce of the man because the wife frequently touches his dead center, the man will act from the wife deliberately indifferent or escape. For this reason, as a wife, must know what the man’s dead center is, do not easily touch, the man will be grateful to you for life.
Dead center one, don’t call frequently to urge men to come home when they are socializing.
Man social basically revolves around two links, one link is to pave the way for career and one link is to pave the way for relaxation, for this reason, when men socialize, they frequently receive phone calls from their wives urging them to come home, men know it is concern, but in front of their friends Very lose the model. A smart man will report to his wife in advance before socializing, and a smart woman will send a greeting text message when her husband returns late.
Dead end #2: Don’t break the pot when a man is annoyed.
Men don’t like to talk when they’re upset, but prefer absolute silence. However, women are curious and concerned, often in the man’s irritability, like to break the sand pot to the end, so that not only can not really care about the effect, but will make the man more upset, usually with a couple of quarrels and end. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Dead end #3: Don’t poke holes in a man’s flaws or embarrassing stories in front of friends and family.
Everyone has a funny past and their own shortcomings, the reason why they are not guarded in front of their families is because men feel no need to pretend in front of their families, but in front of outsiders, men will occasionally mass face to fill the fat, when, as a wife. Never expose the man’s true, not to mention do not feel their husband hypocritical, because living in a ‘dog-eyed’ social environment, sometimes pretend to be strong can also get some opportunities for themselves.
Dead end #4: Don’t force a man to linger when he’s physically tired.
Men are not as horny as women, but men are definitely more eager to have sex than women, but men sometimes present the phenomenon of the heart having more than enough power, when a man is so tired because of vitality that he does not even want to talk, as a wife, please do not The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Dead center five, don’t talk about his parents and siblings too often in front of the man.
A man can occasionally nag his parents or sisters and brothers for not giving a damn, but as a wife don’t cater to, let alone initiate, his parents’ and sisters and brothers’ faults. The love will fade a lot with the establishment of a new family, but at the critical moment, the love will erupt again to make the power of the immeasurable. The new family will be a lot less likely to be able to take advantage of the new family.
Dead end #6: Don’t go through men’s pockets and snoop on their phones too often.
Men’s pockets are usually filled with cell phones, pocket money, cigarettes, lighters, even so, women should not easily touch men’s pockets, because in men’s eyes, men’s pockets represent dignity and trust, women frequently consult The man’s pocket is equivalent to tearing the man’s dignity and destroy the trust between husband and wife. Men’s cell phones will have some seemingly ambiguous, in fact, but not ambiguous text messages, women’s snooping, will add to their own blockage, but also make men feel that it is unreasonable. Dare I ask, if a man is cheating, you can stop it by looking at his phone text messages?
Being a woman is hard, and being a smart woman is even harder. Marriage is originally a bump in the road, but don’t be sarcastic, don’t be hurtful, and mindfulness is the hard truth.