A couple has been sleeping together for years, have you paid attention to his/her sleeping posture? In marriage, it is inevitable that you will encounter all kinds of unhappy things, or maybe you will love and respect each other, but perhaps you have never examined your marriage, in fact, from the sleeping posture can reflect how your relationship as a couple really is, let’s take a look.
1, early marriage spooning
interpretation: intimate, secure This is a common sleeping position for couples who have been married for 3 to 5 years. Experts who study the body language of sleeping say, “Usually, the husband is the hugger. When you use your back to your husband, this may imply that in married life, you pay more or your husband especially needs careful care. With your husband pressing his most sensitive parts against your buttocks, the spoon sleeping position allows you both to get the closest to each other, but it doesn’t necessarily make your sex cells active. Psychologists and marriage experts say, “Many couples prefer this sleeping position simply because it’s comfortable and secure.”
2. Honeymoon pose
Interpretation: Face to face, hugging tightly, just like the two overlapping letter R on the Rolls-Royce logo. This sleeping position is slightly less common than the spoon position, and it can be uncomfortable to hold it all night. You may like this position when emotions are burning and you want to be melted, or just after sex. Of course, there are some people who just prefer it. Experts who study gender relationships say, “Such people tend to get too attached to each other and can’t fall asleep once they’re apart.”
3. The face-up pose
Interpretation: With the husband facing up, this is known as the “This means that he is an extremely egotistical and macho person. Although the wife is also face up, her head rests comfortably on her husband’s shoulder, which means she is dependent and docile. This type of wife sees the world from her husband’s point of view. In the early stages of marriage, this sleeping position is more popular, and it can be seen that couples who sleep this way have a strong sense of responsibility. Psychologists and marriage experts say, “It shows a high level of trust, and you’re on all fours like a turtle so that every part of your body can be caressed by the other person.”
4. Older couples distance style
Interpretation: After more than 5 years of marriage , many couples feel that even in bed, they need to reserve a little space to sleep more comfortably. Usually, they will sleep at a certain distance, like in a spoon-shaped sleeping position, but with a slit in between. Emotional communication will depend entirely on the hands, knees or soles of the feet on each other’s bodies. Psychologists and marriage experts say, “This sleeping position preserves a certain amount of space without losing intimacy. At the same time, physical contact is reduced and sexual desire is relatively less likely to be aroused. It’s a loving sleeping position, but not seductive.”
5. Hooking Up
Interpretation: Some couples find too intimate physical contact is uncomfortable, and they prefer unintentional contact, let’s say a toe or leg inadvertently bumping into each other, or a wife casually resting her foot on her husband’s leg. Although this posture may suggest that one of the husband or wife is not good at expressing his or her love, or that the gesture is deliberate after a confrontation, it may also mean that the relationship between the two is stable. Psychologists and marriage experts say that the hooking of the legs implies intimacy and comfort.
Afterword: Many times small details or behaviors can hint at the degree of beauty of a marriage, and small details can often highlight the key to a couple’s problems, so couples should pay more attention to all aspects of life to make their relationship last and stable.