Marriage is a contractual relationship based on affection. However, sometimes this special contractual relationship seems to be as brittle as paper, men and women a “casual” cheating, a “sexual encounter” or “red apricot out of the wall”, will be like a corrosive
The relationship is as fragile as paper.
You’re together every day, is he lying to you and why would he do that? Do you really know your ta that well? For men to succeed in their careers and for women to have a happy and sweet family life, they must look at the misconceptions about cheating and the truth behind it.
As far as men’s physical requirements, or certain interests are concerned, some seemingly honest and thick through the sultry men, the inner world is more sordid, cheating psychology is sometimes more serious than women.
The crazy psychology of men cheating
Psychology 1 Desire for a beautiful woman to take the initiative to give her arms.
Beautiful women have a prostitute complex, believing that their beauty and flesh can make men fall in love with them and take the initiative to choose them for their benefit and satisfaction. The first desire is to fantasize about occupying a beautiful woman; the other is to desire whether the woman can send herself to the arms, to enjoy herself!
Some men have a secret love affair with their favorite beauty, hidden in their hearts, or tracking or spying, if the conditions allow, will do whatever it takes to seduce. It is not until the goal is achieved that they stop.
Psychology 2 Satisfying the sexual demands of female bosses for the sake of benefits
Women subordinates The name is: “honey” is a lover, to put it bluntly, it is a sexual act for profit. Women do so, in fact, men are also eager to do so. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
These men, who are in it for power or to gain wealth, are eager to have their female superiors’ clear eyes, and to reap both sex and profit, so why not do it! What is the difference between this and a prostitute? The actual fact is that the actual person who is not from is a “martyr”, while the hope and get is a “bad man”. The same as the “martyrs” and “sluts” among women, but the same thing!
Psychology 3 is hard to resist the seduction of a slutty woman.
A man seduces a woman, and the woman is taken in by the abuse called “broken shoes”, and what are broken shoes? It is prostitution, prostitution and prostitutes are synonymous. On the contrary, there are many flirtatious women, for a variety of interests, take the initiative to seduce men, if you clean yourself, not tempted, you are a real man, proving that you are not bored, respectable and admirable! But look at the reality, the officialdom of senior officials, because of the beauty of the scheme, and the collapse of the boom is still less?
In the business war, the beautiful business spy, seduced the boss, in bed to get business intelligence, and the company in trouble is still less? In a word, how many can there be who really sit on the womb of the willow?
Everyone of the corrupt officials who were investigated and punished had a mistress, but are there any who really don’t have a lover in the officialdom today? There is no evidence to check. The most important thing is that the company has a lot of people who are interested in the company.
Mental 4 willingness to be a duck is a typical male prostitute behavior.
Men also have a prostitute complex, and the most obvious one is the male prostitute called “duck”. The most obvious is the male prostitute called “duck”, which existed in ancient times and was called “head of the face” in the Song Dynasty. This is the same kind of man who sells his body for a living, just like a prostitute.
As long as you pay, no matter how old or young, ugly or handsome, they all serve, and they are just walking corpses. It’s also a great way to see the insanity of some men.
There are no sultry men, and there will be no prostitutes. The actual fact is that if you’ve got a lot of sultry men, it’s really frightening, and that’s the source of social ethics and moral decay!
Two men and women from different family backgrounds, because of love, end up building a whole new family, and for that, a bonding process is needed. People often say ‘the seven-year itch’, rather than saying that the seven-year marriage bonding period between the couple left too much damage to each other, and eventually can only find comfort outside of marriage. It seems that it is no longer uncommon for women to cuckold their husbands, and for that reason, both men and women need to understand the reasons for cheating, rather than focusing on the cheating itself.
A recent study done by psychologists found that couples are most likely to cheat on their husbands when they are about forty years old and their wives when they are about thirty-seven years old, and the divorce rate is the highest. This makes one wonder why, after more than a decade of married life and such a long time of bonding, there is a marital crisis at this time.
There are several reasons for a marital crisis at this time:
There are several reasons for a marital crisis at this time:
< strong>1. Life is trivial and too many daily conflicts have accumulated, leading to a lot of psychological resentment.
In this age group, because of living together for more than a decade, daily conflicts keep increasing and are not formally dealt with between the two parties, then they accumulate and build up more and more, leading to outbursts.
2. The first few years of marriage is a period of tolerance
Marriage has a period of tolerance The first three years are the most inclusive, and by the seventh year, this inclusive period becomes fatigued, and by the tenth year, there is a burnout period (this period can be described as the time when the passion disappears and there is a complete transition from love to affection) so when a man reaches forty and a woman reaches thirty-seven, there is no longer any tolerance at all.
3. Small conflicts accumulate into big conflicts
Everyone knows The seven-year itch is the most dangerous, so are very careful to maintain, but after more than a decade, we all feel that the other side is already part of themselves, all think that they can replace love with affection, the previous small things, but also because of the resentment at the time, from time to time to take out a quarrel, quarrel more, small conflicts become big conflicts, more and more hurt the feelings between the two sides.
4. Small problems can appear as big crises
After more than a decade of living The personalities and outlooks on life and values between the two couples have changed a lot, and at the same time have exposed all their problems, which, when not dealt with, can lead to a big crisis!
5. Forty-year-old men are more attractive
Forty-year-old men
Forty-year-old men are arguably the most attractive men because they have their own careers, are more mature and stable than young people, are not childish and frenzied like young people, and have their own rich life experiences and wisdom.
And for these reasons, they are no longer satisfied with their current dull and passionless married life and want to seek passion, which leads to the opportunity for women who like forty-year-old men to take advantage of it.
Three secret ways to kill men cheating
One
Once a man “cheats”, he can not move on the surface, but secretly first take charge of the family’s economic power, to the family financial management as the reason. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
And hint that you already know about him and let him think about the possible consequences. Of course, if you don’t really want to run out of steam with him, don’t be in a hurry to open up to him and show your cards. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the company’s business, so that the company can take back the leg that it has taken.
Psychologist analysis: the economy and children are a man’s weakness, and as long as he’s not in too deep, he’ll hang on for these two reasons. It is certainly not without consequences, but for a man who has betrayed his wife and is unfaithful to his family, even if a slight disciplinary action is taken, the intention is to make him return to the path. Of course, for the future to last, there will be more constructive communication and exchange.
II. The secret match method:
With a third party hiding in the shadows A match. The most important thing is to give your husband more thoughtfulness and care, such as improving your cooking skills, cooking more of your husband’s favorite dishes to tie his stomach; understanding and respecting your husband’s hobbies and interests, and if possible, trying to share some of the fun with him; taking the initiative to give him personal space to make him feel that you are understanding; or coming up with fun ideas to give him a new feeling… …
In short, keep him firmly drawn to you as if he’s just getting to know you. Then he won’t have to look elsewhere for freshness.
Psychologists analyze that men’s boredom with inherent gender relationships has its own subjective reasons as well as objective factors. Women’s own lethargy and paralysis about love can also make men feel disinterested. It’s not so bad as to be intolerable to each other, but it has drifted away.
When you’re full of hate for a man who cheats, you might as well take a look back at yourself and your married life. If you’re willing to make changes, don’t think of it as simply pleasing the man, it’s an effort you’re making for your own love and happiness.
Three: The Proactive Approach:
Instead of being passive, you should Take the initiative and ask that third party out directly to talk about it. I believe you will also be curious as to what kind of person the other party is. Relationships between women are delicate, especially in situations such as yours. There are certainly hard feelings, but once one of you takes the first step, it’s easy to gain release and communication.
The other person, who is also a woman, may understand how you feel and admire your courage. But if unfortunately you meet a bent or unreasonable third party, you may also want to show your boldness and dominance. Since there must be a decision, then all three people have to make a choice without retreat. Of course, we are all adults and can be open and honest with each other without turning the ending into a farce.
Psychologist’s analysis: You are the most innocent and the most righteous one in the whole affair. If the party with the most power impulse were to take a rational approach, then everyone could think about the topic very calmly. Where to go from here, perhaps weighing some, there is a result. Quick and rational is cruel, but also the most effective. Don’t be afraid that it won’t turn out the way you want it to, at least you’ve made the best choice.