In recent years, as the economy grows, prices soar, housing prices soar, and even the difficulty index for men to get married is also climbing. After the girlfriend that off, but also over the mother-in-law this off. Recently it is out of the mother-in-law’s son-in-law selection criteria this out, netizens have spit: “in this” male chasing female, apart from a mother “era, is to force the rhythm of death ah! The newest addition to the list is the newest addition to the list.
Top 10 criteria for choosing a son-in-law
1. A house of 100 square meters or more
1. house over 100 square meters
2. a car over 200,000
3. a deposit over 100,000 in the name of the woman
4. Hire a nanny during childbirth
5. Have a big wedding
6. Baby formula to be imported
7. Salary to be turned in
8. Go back to your mother’s house for the holidays
9. Travel at least once a year
10. Be loyal and obedient to your wife
Editorial Interpretation: Why were the ten criteria created?
The ten criteria may seem like a family issue of a mother-in-law concerned about her daughter’s marriage, but it is a serious social issue. That is, the national marriage threshold with the pace of economic development all the way up, the development of the times and the increase in the cost of living, so that people become materialistic in choosing a partner, will use some “hard indicators”, such as income, housing, cars, etc. for comparison, such a concept of marriage will certainly cause a certain degree of impact on the overall employment and career choice of our country’s society.
“Ten New Criteria for Choosing a Son-in-law” is, on the surface, an increasingly “utilitarian” mother-in-law, but behind it is the pressure of social transformation and social reality. The pressure of social transformation and the social reality behind it. The “standard” let netizens groan is inevitable, how to solve the abnormal social phenomenon is the king. The idea of disliking the rich and the poor is a great sadness for our society as a whole once it becomes widespread.
Ten criteria for mothers-in-law to choose their sons-in-law, what do netizens think?
“This is not looking for a son-in-law, this is looking for a bank.” The netizen sheep comments, tiktok under the comments of super 95% expressed anger, some said “most men with such conditions have children, aunt you want to give your daughter to do small? The “leftover women are created this way! Leftover women are the product of their mothers-in-law.” Others said, “This is the sale of daughters, ah? Is this the standard for marrying the daughter of the richest man? Or the conditions for marrying a fairy?” Only some netizens confessed, “It’s over, it is estimated that in addition to the last one there is no which can be done.” Or self-deprecating: “It seems to be bachelor within ten years.”
Apparently, “mother-in-law” has been demonized in this tiktok. But interestingly, according to the Daily Telegraph, new research from Deakin University found that regular visits to your mother-in-law are good for your family life, and that visiting your mother and mother-in-law once a week will make you feel happier than other married people.
With all the criticism online, mothers-in-law have something to say:
In today’s families The majority of families today are only children, and their children are the jewels of their parents’ eyes, and it takes a lot of effort and money to raise a child. The cost of raising a child from birth to college costs 400,000 to 500,000 yuan, according to an analysis by experts at the Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences, the total direct economic cost of a child between the ages of 0 and 16 is currently about 250,000 yuan, and if you count the cost of higher education, the direct cost of raising a child is already as high as 480,000 yuan, so it’s not easy to raise a child.
Again, “Girls need to be raised rich, boys need to be raised poor.” In many families, the effort and cost of raising a girl is even higher than that of raising a boy. Parents spend so much effort on their daughters, like building a work of art from scratch, even if the work of art is not their own, they must find a better next family to be satisfied. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Editor’s Note
Marriage is a beautiful thing, but It is becoming more and more realistic due to various material constraints. The mother-in-law’s concern is not unreasonable, after all, there are too many “men who become bad when they have money” in our society, but we can’t be too harsh on our future son-in-law, nor can we let our daughter marry someone we don’t like for the sake of money.
The youngsters should not complain too much about their future mother-in-law either. Both sides stand in a mutually sympathetic mood, and perhaps harmony will happen instantly.