Some women are very lucky to be in love constantly, others and herself think they will soon enter into marriage, but wait until the people who should get married are married, and she is still in love. She is not married, of course, because her boyfriend did not propose to her, so have not thought about why the other party is only willing to fall in love and delayed to marry you? The other side is not responsible for this, maybe it’s you that’s causing the other side to be afraid to marry you.
One, you can get along with any man
There are often men
There are often men who complain that their significant others don’t get along with their “friends”, but of course there are women who are the exception to the rule – not only are they very aware of men’s preferences and are well versed in soccer, cars, politics and other “men’s topics “
You may think that such women should be popular because they are well integrated into the circle of men. But that’s not the case. Mixing a woman in the middle of a bunch of men and still mingle as brothers will make men so uncomfortable. And your boyfriend may also have a hard-on for it, thinking that you are so chatty with his friends that you must also have a large group of foxes and friends on the outside, and must also be able to talk and laugh.
Men are also insecure creatures, especially after marriage. Watching you in front of the male without reservation, himself completely without a little independent space, he will be more worried, your friends of the opposite sex will be attempted because of your character. Such women tend to make men lose their sense of security. If you are always worried about which article you will be with friends of the opposite sex to grasp the scale, such a marriage will be difficult to maintain. In this case, men still dare to marry you?
Two, too perfect Superman
It is said that no one is perfect, too Perfection can make a man feel less real and less safe.
When a woman can always take the initiative to solve all kinds of problems for men, from the smallest details of life to career advice, as if she can solve any difficulties that men can not overcome, you will surely say that men will love her so much that they will want to marry her? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
The man’s self-esteem is very strong, if you are too perfect, he has no value in front of you, it is difficult to get recognition, in the long run, the man will breed inferiority complex. This inferiority complex will also be brought to his work and life, in tiktokko, he will also be a man who can not lift his head, will be considered by friends to be eating soft food, everything depends on women. When many people around say this about a man, one day he will not be able to stand it and will choose to leave.
A man likes a woman who is a little bird, and even if you are very capable, you must not act like a superhero in front of him. The appropriate time to ask for help from your boyfriend, so that he has a sense of accomplishment, if necessary, also pampered. Such a woman is very capable and can also control the relationship between the two well, the man will be more convinced. Marriage is different from love, marriage is long-lasting, let a man live under your halo and live under your shelter for the rest of his life, he will never accept it!
Three, too “independent”
If a woman in the eyes of a man is not asking for anything, everything can be fixed, anything can not be defeated “iron man image”, it is the same as labeling yourself “difficult to approach”. Janine is a foreign company’s personnel manager, in the work of thunder and lightning, women are not the slightest. A year ago, she bought her own home, but also has a purebred cocker spaniel. Despite her good looks and good income, she could not find her desired other half. The male colleagues in the company said privately, “She is too strong, she can do everything by herself, so what does she need a man for?”
A man wants to marry someone who is dependent on him, who can learn from him and get help. Men are useless at your heels, except to pass on the family name. However, the man is not seeking these physical satisfaction, he is more focused on the psychological satisfaction, because men love face. The requirements of men and women in society have always been different, traditionally women should be at home to raise children, while men are out to earn money to support the family, although with the changing times, people’s perceptions have changed, but the innermost subconscious is still not the slightest change. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of the company’s business.
Four, always dressed up
Yes, men like beautiful women, but that doesn’t mean that men can always be dressed up. But this does not mean that men can always endure the woman’s “severe treatment”: a meal time, to get up to go to the bathroom to make up three or four times; wake up in the morning, the first thing is a jolt into the bathroom, washing, rinsing, smearing two hours; beautiful is beautiful, but looking at the beauty of the face thick foundation, men even discouraged
While it is a woman’s nature to love beauty, a woman’s excessive and repeated The repeated and endless “repairs” of the woman will make the man feel disinterested. Also, who wants to take a woman who is always worried about her clothes being dirty and her makeup being smudged to watch the game with pleasure? This is also a problem.
When you are in love, it is very agreeable to focus on clothes, but marriage is not love, married life is inseparable from rice and oil, and the kitchen is always for women, the ultimate home of women. If you always watch out for your own clothes and makeup, you will cook for your husband wholeheartedly? Will you clean the floor for your husband without complaint to create a good home environment? I’m sure it’s not possible! If you can choose, men will definitely choose a woman who can get out of the hall, can get into the kitchen. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these.