After marriage, women often feel that they are not as happy as they were before marriage, and men become more and more casual and care less and less about their feelings. The woman herself has become a yellow-faced woman, busy every day with the rice and oil and salt, to the man also more and more nagging. What exactly causes a woman to change before and after marriage, and how should a woman live after marriage?
There is a story about a boy and a girl sitting together at night watching the stars, and then suddenly the girl says to the boy, “Do you believe it? There are unique two stars in the sky that represent only the two of us.” The boy didn’t even think about it and casually said, “Wow, really? How wonderful it would be if we could go up to the sky together!”
Time has changed, and after a few more years, the boy became a man and the girl became a woman. On Valentine’s Day, the woman suddenly remembered the past and called her boyfriend and said, “Can you take me to see the stars at night? I do not know these years, the two stars that only represent us still …… “I did not expect her words have not finished, the caller hung up the phone, and then he returned her a text message:” I am in a meeting. There may be a dinner party in the evening, you eat first.” Seeing this and thinking about the past, she was already sobbing on the other end of the phone.
How hateful time can be. It’s amazing how it can make a person forget the romance that should be in their life, even though they still live together, and he will likely not be pampered and cute with you as often and will only be left to tell the truth and reason.
Women are always easily satisfied, even with small favors; women are always easily moved, even with small surprises.
When pursuing women, men are always able to catch these “weaknesses” of women and then launch effective attacks: candlelight dinners, wine and roses, travel vacations, birthday parties …… all kinds of romance, it is estimated that the picky woman will also be moved by this. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Over time, many women find that the reality is far from their imagination, and that the romance in a real relationship is like a blossom that has passed its prime before it can be appreciated.
Married women are busy at work and doing housework after work, and they spend time at home after work, so there are no roses or wine dinners. The number of times two people go out on a date is getting less and less, the locations are getting more and more monotonous, and the gifts received are getting more and more practical and less romantic.
Looking back at the beginning of the relationship, it was like a short-lived dream; and now that the dream is awake, all the good things have disappeared, and what’s in front of the woman’s eyes is still a dull life and a painless love.
Is it that love has changed, or is it that love was originally like this? The other side has changed, or he was too well disguised at first? The actual fact is that you are not gentle enough, or he has another love? …… then, some women began to ask themselves repeatedly, and constantly speculate and doubt. This is the first time I’ve seen this.
A person, no matter how energetic, has a time to be tired and quiet; a relationship, no matter how romantic it starts, has a time to go down. The first thing you need to do is to find out that it’s not that love has changed or that it’s the way it was meant to be, the excitement and the peace of mind that we all have to experience.
It’s not just that the other person has changed, or that he was too well disguised at first, but that as the years pass, the way both people treat each other changes quite a bit. The first time, you did not dress up every day, take the trouble to make him more infatuated with you? And now, do you still care that much about his eyes? The first thing you need to do is to ask yourself what you think of each other.
It’s not that you’re not attractive anymore, and it’s not that he’s in love, it’s just that both of us have adapted to each other’s looks, personalities, and habits to have an unhurried mindset. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
But then again, just because love has become flat doesn’t mean he’s paying little attention to you or ignoring you. The lack of romance in love does not mean that two people do not communicate or see each other for a long time; at least you should know in your heart what kind of situation and what kind of person the boyfriend you love now is.
Perhaps women who want to pursue romance should have made it a habit from the beginning.