What is too easy to get or to be controlled, people tend not to cherish. Therefore, women should give men a proper sense of crisis, which is not only the way to run a marriage, but also to leave themselves a back way and a bottom card.
One, the crisis given to him by his mother’s family
Once upon a time, if there was any The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services, such as the Internet, the Internet, and the Internet.
But we should still see some positive power in it, that is, women should still have more or less the power of the maternal family, which is where you come from, and it is a most steadfast support, although we no longer advocate the previous kind of Although we no longer advocate the previous kind of “moving back to the root” of the mobilization and blind fighting, but always have the mother’s family behind you, that is essential. The woman should leave the man with a minimum of a crisis.
Two, the crisis in personal ability or financial strength
In fact In marriage, whether or not there is still love or affection present between the parties, there is a force that cannot be ignored at any time, and that force is strength. The size of the strength to a certain extent determines the inferiority and strength of the marriage, determines whether the other party can really respect you from the bottom of his heart, determines whether the key time in the marriage can give each other in a necessary sense of crisis. This is the fundamental reason why we advocate that women must be self-reliant.
What does strength mean in a marriage? It is the opposite of the soft ability to manage each other, to make each other love and care about you, the strength belongs to your own personal, often expressed as a personal study work and social skills, in the economic strength and so on, through such a strength, let each other feel your self-worth in life, so that he can not underestimate you, and even at the critical time to tell him that you can still live without him, he Not necessarily the only thing in your life ……
This sense of crisis in men requires women to fight and maintain with their own self-reliance, when a man who does not have this sense of crisis, and at the same time The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Third, the crisis in the spiritual and emotional or social circles
Real life There are really too many silly women in real life, always thinking that if you love you don’t need to communicate with any other man, you can close your inner world to all your significant other all your life. If this is the case, you are really very wrong. What a foolish act it would be to give up all of your interactions with your significant other for the sake of one man.
Think about it, the world itself is made up of two types of men and women, and when you give up half of them, it means you give up half of the opportunity to know the society and know yourself to improve yourself, and it won’t take long for such a closed time, you will be extremely easy to let this era abandon you, and you The main point is that your man will become arrogant, comfortable, and without a sense of crisis, and without this, what else can you do to motivate and manage your man well?