Sometimes a woman’s tears are a deadly weapon for men compared to her pretty looks, so many women offer their weapons as soon as they have something unpleasant with their partner, which is actually a very stupid act. The woman who has this experience must be back to know that the man will be more and more indifferent to your tears, and even get bored, is it because he does not love you anymore?
Counselor Song Yumei says men do get more and more numb to women’s tears as time goes on. Love is selfish and exclusive. People in love only have each other in their vision, and his / her happiness, anger and sadness will naturally touch the heart of the other party. The woman’s tears at this time indicate that she is sad, painful and upset, and the man’s heart aches for it.
After marriage, the rose color of love slowly fades away, and the man’s vision will slowly scatter from the woman, career, children, both parents, siblings and other relationships, will again draw his attention. So men at this time the feeling of love will become lighter, no longer as sensitive as when in love. This is a normal process from the passion when the state of high heat down, and is not a sign of love fading, just like staring at a thing for a long time will be fatigued. Some wives, when faced with such an attitude from their husbands, will become worse and even say “you don’t love me” and other complaints, which will turn into arguments. The result is that the color of the relationship has completely morphed into black and white.
Tears, combined with verbal and physical expressions, do capture a woman’s heart. But tears don’t always work, and couples need timely and skillful communication the most. If you have a cold war or a conflict, a “please stay with me”, “hug me”, will be more effective than snotty tears at every turn. “The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
The woman’s tears also “flow right time”. The wife’s tears of aggression during an argument will increase the stress and anxiety of the man. In his opinion, crying is a sign of weakness, just venting emotions, can not solve the problem. And men are best at arguing about things. So when arguing, women should try to hold back their tears. But when the two of you watch a TV show together, meet an elderly beggar, or talk to an older generation and the wife falls into tears, it will evoke pity in the husband. He will also love you more because of your soft heart and kindness.
Whoever said that women are described as made of water, but you have to clearly perceive that it is just an adjective, don’t let your tears flood your eyes, too much is often of little value to exist.