People often like to discuss the question of whether the personalities of lovers should complement each other or be similar in order for a relationship to last. In fact, whether in love or marriage, there are situations where two people have complementary personalities and similar personalities. Understanding more about the personality traits of both partners can indeed help a smooth relationship and a harmonious married life. It is reasonable to assume that the same zodiac sign has roughly similar personality traits, so what would it be like if men and women of the same sign got together?
A. The same “sex” repels each other
Below, we explore four typical same-sex relationships based on an interesting hypothesis. The hypothesis is that the woman at a certain time and place gestures to the man not to smoke. Note that the “sex” in “same-sex attraction and repulsion” refers to personality, not gender.
Group 1: Gemini Man vs. Gemini Woman
Usually The twins will simply and succinctly say, “Don’t you smoke.” When a happy man hears his partner tell him not to smoke, his first thought is, “Who cares?
Gemini are notoriously uninhibited, and in relationships, they resent being bossed around and hate all orders, including “like orders. So, the Gemini man will adopt the Gemini most usual practice: I do what I want. Of course, the twins are not vegetarian, if the other side of the courage to take their words as a deaf ear, she will choose a more radical way to defend their dignity, such as with friends to the bar all night, get a post-modernist tattoo or to the mall to swipe each other’s cards. Gemini’s principle is: you bad, I am worse than you. Indeed, Gemini is a bit childish, fighting over a trivial matter.
After an action-packed fight, a war of words breaks out, and eloquence happens to be the twins’ strength, so “drowning the other side in their own spittle” becomes the common goal of the fight. The two sides of the battle goal. When the two sides enjoy the freedom of the same purpose, they can always collide with the wonderful sparks, together to create incredible surprises; and when the freedom of one party affects the freedom of the other, they rarely tolerate the personality will make the couple relationship is difficult to maintain. If a Gemini man and a Gemini woman want to get along for a long time, one of them must learn to compromise and give in appropriately.
Group 2: Virgins vs Virgins
Virgins are the ones who say to their partner, “Don’t smoke. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you’re not smoking. They have always paid attention to poise, and often unconsciously choose image-related phrases such as “smoking leads to dark teeth, bad body odor, and vulgarity” when stating their reasons, so that they can easily anger each other.
Virgo loves to be “picky”. The same love of prickly virgin men will, of course, also ridicule each other, trying to find the other side of the “thorns”, one by one to pick out. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
But don’t forget that a constant bridge of picking on each other would greatly degrade the quality of life, something that Virgo cannot accept. Especially when two people have different views on the same thing and contradict each other, usually no one can convince anyone. Unless one partner changes, becomes “confused”, slowly gets used to being picked on, and willingly accepts the other’s perfectionist demands and corrects them, the relationship is likely to continue.
B. Same “sex” attracts
Group 1: Cancer Man vs Cancer Woman
The Cancer Woman, as a good wife and mother, values marriage and family, so the strategy she uses is usually “Reasoning, moving,” making full use of Cancer’s sympathy. She will smile and hold each other’s hands and say, “Honey, the environment with smoke is not good for the human body, especially for the baby oh.” The same home-loving Cancer man will immediately extinguish his cigarette and praise his partner for being thoughtful.
Compared to Gemini and Virgo, the Cancer man and Cancer woman’s strengths come through loud and clear. They can each have their own pursuits, but they are united on the point of caring for the family. Anything that is good for the health of the family is worth fighting for for the Cancerians. If the Cancer woman continues to gently weigh the pros and cons, it shouldn’t be that hard to get the Cancer man to make up his mind to quit smoking.
When a Cancer man and a Cancer woman are in love, they are excited to plan their future family life, such as researching recipes, practicing cooking skills, designing a nest, buying small playthings, and so on, and eventually honing in on a jealousy-inducing level of harmony. The two of them will inevitably argue about small things like food and water, but it’s hard to break their consistent and certain beliefs about life.
Group 2: Libra Man vs Libra Woman
When the Libra Woman wants to When a Libra woman wants to give her opinion to a Libra man, she will usually agonize over it for a long time, and only as a last resort will she speak up. A good Libra woman might say something like, “Well, can you go somewhere else to smoke this? I’m a little sick today and I smell bad.” After saying that, she will carefully observe the other party’s reaction, fearing to bring embarrassment to the other party. And the Libra man will stop smoking immediately, whether he wants to or not, to say he’s sorry and cares about the other person’s health.
In fact, Libra is a sign that is very good at avoiding conflict and always has the ability to handle things perfectly. They don’t like to go toe to toe, but prefer to adopt a “peace policy”. The two good people are very difficult to reconcile, but the downside is that they don’t get to know each other very well.
Libra always wears the mask of a gentleman or a lady, and their innermost thoughts can be elusive. The Libra man and Libra woman often need to do something crazy or romantic together, such as drunkenness, bungee jumping, scuba diving, hot air balloon ride, wild camping, etc., in order for them to interchange their hearts and release their repressed personalities. The most important thing is that it is a good combination.