Men are easily tempted to cheat, and women often cheat because their husbands aren’t good enough for them, and they can’t stand it anymore before they take that step. If a man wants to prevent his wife from cheating, emotional experts give you 10 good suggestions.
One, understand your wife’s social circle.
Sun Tzu’s Art of War says to know the enemy in order to have a hundred battles. The wife is not the enemy, but to prevent one’s own people from deserting or betrayal is not easier than dealing with the enemy. To prevent your wife from cheating on you, it also means that even if you are close to people, there may be an antagonist. Otherwise, there is no human heart to say. Rather than wildly suspicious of the wife, it is better to pay more attention to the wife’s social circle, friends, acquaintances, colleagues, have the opportunity to contact more of these people, will have a fuller understanding of the wife’s style of action and character, more real. If your wife will not have an affair, you can increase your confidence, and if there is any hint of it, you do not need to wait for your wife to have a red-headed affair and take root, and then pursue and regret it.
II. Prevent your wife from becoming a red herring for the leader for no reason.
If the wife is not usually a capable person in the unit, nor does she have any special relationship background. And suddenly become an important person on the unit or the leadership of the red, often accompanied by wine, play, accompanied by business trips, then you have to pay attention, have to play a few more question marks? At this time, the wife often said to work overtime, you also have to be more attentive. If your wife used to be wistful and now she is gold finally shining, then there is nothing to worry about.
Three, make yourself better.
When men can’t take the responsibility they should, women are naturally prone to cheating. For example, in this kind of society now, men have to bear the responsibility can not be said to be heavy ah. Buy a house, raise children, pensioners and so on, some men even have to support their wives. When the man’s limited ability, sometimes not necessarily well enough to take up the responsibility of providing for the family, or let women do a great job, in this case, if the couple’s feelings, and may not deepen enough to tolerate or ignore the situation, the woman is likely to ask for help. And the woman to ask for help from the greatest resources and pay, is likely to be physical plus emotional. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Fourth, don’t do things that hurt your wife.
Many women who have affairs do so many times because their husbands treat them badly, but of course, the most likely thing is that their husbands have done something that hurts their wives very deeply. If your husband scolds your wife, cheats on your wife, or your husband has a lover outside. Or the husband is extremely unconcerned about his wife, his wife is pregnant, and his husband does not ask or hear. With these injuries over, the wife will not take the marriage relationship very seriously, will not take the initiative to refuse the temptation of the outside world. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
V. Pay attention to any changes in your wife’s routine.
Once a woman has had an affair and has developed a sense of extramarital affairs, it is natural that it will not be calm and quiet, and if the man does not get found for a long time, it can only be said that the man is too stupid. If a woman is outside, occasionally playing with people outside of marriage sex, and more improvisation, after the end, will not affect the normal life of both sides. But once a woman has love outside of marriage, there must be a big change in the routine of life. For example, phone calls, text messages, going out regular and mood changes, etc., so women have an affair, the beginning is to try not to change this rule, but with the passage of time, the deepening of feelings, it is difficult to maintain this calm. When women regularly find excuses to justify their behavior, as a man will have to pay more attention.
Six, make your female loved ones your wife’s partners.
There are several benefits to doing this: First, it allows the two loved ones to truly blend together and be close as a family. Instead of being separated from each other and burying each other. At the same time, usually more care and mutual support in life, to eliminate the feeling of loneliness. The other benefit, of course, is to change the wife’s daily social environment so as to reduce the possibility of an affair. There is also the fact that loved ones can play a supervisory role and pass on information. Although, these do not need to be deliberately arranged, they are conveyed through the daily words and actions of loved ones.
Seventh, cultivate more affection with your wife and enjoy the romance.
A person who has been married for many years and can still send roses to his wife is not necessarily a person who is very romantic by nature, but can only be a person who knows how to love. If the usual feelings are not good, you such as do not want to improve relations, you will send roses? So, when a couple sends roses, it is either for modesty or because they are happy. I believe that if you cultivate more feelings with your wife, there is no need to talk about formal romance. Only when the relationship is good, it is also natural to have romantic interest to speak of. That is why emotional cultivation is the first thing. With feelings, you can resist interference. Just like radar, the instrument itself is bad hardware, poor performance, that is, no interference, they get bad not running. And what can be done about it?
Eight, see more of a woman’s strengths.
When a man takes the lead at home, see more of a woman’s strengths, because when a woman lacks self-confidence, her mood is depressed, in this case, if in interpersonal communication, get other men’s affirmation, find more full confidence when The woman’s heart may be facing outward. Men see more of a woman’s strengths, it will give women more confidence, so that women may take the initiative to take responsibility for the family. Especially when women are in love, most hear the good words of men, but after marriage, this feeling is reversed, must make women feel fooled, thus no longer believe in the so-called love. If you find confidence on the outside, then you must treat the original home as hell.
Nine, have more time together.
The traditional Chinese perception is that men are outside and women are inside. This understanding provides an excuse for men to often be away or even stay home at night. Many women run the household, as if the woman’s position is at home. But women are at home alone for a long time, no man’s company, will be lonely and boring, for a long time, will think of looking for companions to spend time or to participate in some social activities, from the home to go out. In the already lonely psychological role, the woman out, it is likely to be tempted by other men. Because of this opportunity, the chance of an affair will increase, women do not go outside, and how to have an affair? So, men want to prevent women from having an affair, the first thing is to take care of the family, more comfort to women, to make their own away from home, warmth but stay at home. In this way, the woman will naturally reduce the chances of an affair.
Ten, occasionally ask to attend your wife’s party.
If a woman always has events that you feel you can’t control and your heart isn’t quite sure about her whereabouts, ask to attend your wife’s events on an ad hoc basis. Especially some activities are available to take your husband with you. If your wife is out to have an affair, naturally, you can not find an excuse to refuse your participation for a while, even if it is to make excuses, sometimes very reluctantly. If you do not regularly participate in your wife’s activities, then naturally have more and deeper understanding of your wife’s relationships. It is possible to know each other. If your wife is not having an affair, moderate participation in your wife’s activities will improve the relationship between the couple. If, however, the wife has an affair, it can also be detected and prevented in time.