It is often said how to run a marriage, in fact, a good marriage does not need to be deliberately created at all, a good marriage is formed naturally, if you really want to do that kind of respect each other, this marriage is simply no feelings to speak of. The difference between love and marriage is that love is to see each other’s strengths, while marriage is to see each other’s weaknesses, so how to live with each other’s weaknesses becomes the main source of conflict, smart women often do not say explicitly, but will only turn a blind eye to it.
I. Don’t create your own so-called privacy.
Couples since they are already birds of a feather, naturally they should be in the same boat through thick and thin, joy when you can take the happiness out to share with your family, pain when there is no need to hide the truth to bear the pain and sorrow alone. Although the vast majority of men like to report the good news, not the bad, for fear of telling their wives the career difficulties they face will increase each other’s worries, and even cause their wives to sleep and eat. In fact, many people’s wives are not necessarily able to become the husband’s career helper, but definitely will be standing behind you to cheer you on support.
Two, don’t try to change and transform each other.
Failed marriages are often the result of one party’s strong desire to change or even transform the other party into what they want, so that all they see in their eyes are each other’s flaws and problems that do not meet their own desires, and the topic of quarrels between the couple The topic of quarrel between husband and wife is often raised from the smallest life details to the serious level of unforgiveness and even divorce. In fact, everyone has their own attitude and way of life, and home is the most relaxing place for people, so trying to force each other to accept with their own human attitudes often results in unhappy disagreement.
Three, learn to always think about things differently.
Nowadays, the majority of young people are growing up in a more self-centered environment, and they are used to their families’ modesty and favor from childhood to adulthood. The past kind of self-centered and self-serving problems will be revealed again. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Fourth, to express their love sex at the right time.
It is said that sex is the fusion agent of love and marriage, as long as the physical and mental health and erotic normal men and women, will want to get intimate contact with their lovers, hoping to enjoy the sweetness and entanglement of love, therefore, each other at the right time and on the right occasion Expression of intimacy is also a mandatory course in married life, which will allow both sides to feel their marriage sweet concentration. Moreover, a healthy marriage is always inseparable from love and sex, no love and sex marriage is actually a false hypocrisy of false marriage. Both men and women want to be able to fully communicate and understand each other with their loved ones.
Five, to learn to experience each other’s empathy.
It is said that love has now developed into a fast food sex culture, where you meet in one day, kiss in two days, and have sex in seven days. However, it should still follow the basic rules of love, there are things that step too fast instead of wanting to be fast. The most important thing is that you should be able to get a good idea of what you’re doing.
Six, to look at the big picture and ignore the little things.
A beautiful marriage is the product of constant compromise, and the vast majority of failed marriages are actually self-destructive. To get along with the couple have a harmonious love marriage, we must always remember to put each other in the most important position in their lives, everything is not too calculating, only say what should be said, only do what should be done, grasp the reasonable scale of the relationship between husband and wife to get along, so that each other can feel the family responsibility, but also can have a reasonable space for activities that are not suppressed. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.