If you ask women, what kind of men are the most hated? I’m sure the answers are varied. But in the different will also appear the same point, such as those who only love not married men. If you encounter these only love not married men, women, you will wait for him? If you give up, and can not let go of the feelings between the two. If you insist, two people before the road in where? The man only love not married, you should wait for him?
As a woman, if you say you hate this kind of man, you can’t fully summarize it. It is more accurate to say that you love and hate. Love is because cherish the feelings between the two, if the man can still be to you, the melancholy of this surrender is even thicker. The hate is that he hesitates to give a commitment, the two prospects are unknown. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Netizen A and her boyfriend have been dating for more than 2 years, and the two sides have been getting along well. The two of them ended up in a breakup.
Everyone’s relationship was stable at the beginning, and everyone thought the other was good, but why wouldn’t he give himself a commitment? Even though Xiao A has broken up with him, she can’t figure out this problem. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem. What worries her even more is that the next guy she meets, will he be the same way?
In terms of reasons, it may be more practical for men to think about marriage. This practicality is not necessarily expressed in material terms, but also contains some details of spirituality and life. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
1. Fear of being tied to marriage, fear of commitment.
Marriage means responsibility, and life after marriage is not only about taking care of your wife, but also about taking care of your wife’s family. Therefore, for a mature man who has been used to living alone for most of his life, if not to the last resort or to find a woman who is very comfortable together to let him have the right life such thoughts, he is definitely not willing to easily accept the bondage of marriage.
On the other hand, it’s not that they don’t love, it’s just that they are afraid to make a commitment and lack confidence in their ability to love someone forever. Not to mention that the promise of marriage encompasses more than just love.
2. Career first, love second.
Most mature men put their career at the top of the list, even more important than marriage and love. It is not uncommon to temporarily sacrifice marriage and love for the sake of career.
3. Although the relationship between the two is stable, the time to get married has not yet come.
Marriage is a lifetime event for two people and two families, and it is important to be fully prepared both psychologically and materially so that life after marriage will be smoother. Because of the social pressure, the material base may not yet meet certain requirements, and many men in such a situation prefer to postpone the wedding.
This is also related to the different physiological and psychological characteristics of men and women. Women always believe that youth is limited and most women will complete their lifelong events before the age of 30-35. The pressure that older women have to endure is not something that everyone is willing to face. The more the man is, the more the age is like a precipitation of experience, the more the man is like a wine, the longer the year, the better the taste.
If it is from the type, there are generally these types of men easy to become unmarried:
If it is from the type, there are generally these types of men easy to become unmarried:
The first kind is the so-called successful people. The majority of men with successful and mature minds will have their own unique insights, they will not easily fall in love with a random woman, even if they do, they will not necessarily find a random time to hastily marry into the family.
This kind of man has his own type of intention in mind and has his own criteria for choosing a significant other and insists on it, which seems independent on the surface and usually makes statements quite forward, but is a traditionalist at heart.
The second type of man is the one who has no opinion of his own. The second type is a man who does not have his own opinion. He is less independent, often follows others, and likes to depend on others, and if he or she does not meet someone suitable for marriage, he or she may join the ranks of the unmarried.
The third type is the suspicious, indecisive man! Picky men are included.
He is always more considerate and hesitant to say YES to marriage as he/she is always afraid to commit easily for fear of divorce later.
The fourth kind is the rebellious, anti-traditional man!
Naturally, he doesn’t like to act according to the world’s rules. If you say go east, he will go west. There is a rebellious factor within his blood, and the traditional form of marriage, he has a challenging mindset.
For men, love is not marriage, except for the playboy type of love affairs, as a normal man, to have a family at some point is a necessary need of the physiology and environment. Perhaps the commitment to marriage and life after marriage is in a kind of inner confusion and uncertainty, perhaps because the objective material conditions do not allow, or because the subjective view is not ready, they are only on the word marriage in the throat bell, never said to the woman around.
If you’re indecisive and hoping that divine providence will present an opportunity to bring the relationship to a conclusion, whatever that may be. If this is the case, then why don’t you create this opportunity yourself? If the decision is to marry this man, here’s what you need to do:
First move: take care of his close friends and family.
Win the favor of his close friends and family and let them help you blow soft air in his ear. Take him along to a party with friends who have happy marriages, watch a sweet love movie, and unknowingly make him curious and feel good about marriage: my marriage could be this sweet.
Two: If it’s not
Don’t be so obedient to him. The word “marriage” is definitely not mentioned by yourself. Only occasionally in front of him lightly talk about. Just like kicking the ball to give him the right to decide. If he really loves you, he certainly can’t let you go for so long, and is more afraid that someone will take his place.
Third move: make it clear
As the saying goes, women chase men through a veil. The first thing you can do is to ask him straight out, “Honey, don’t you want to marry me? You do not want to be a father? The first thing you need to do is to get a kiss from me every morning.
If after all this he still hasn’t said or is clear that he won’t get married anytime soon, then women, we suggest you consider ending the relationship. After all, a woman’s youth is limited, and the risks of advanced maternal age are not small.