With the opening of people’s minds, sibling relationships are gaining more and more recognition, and the chances of sibling pairings are also increasing dramatically, but since the male partner is after all smaller than the female partner, it takes more effort and the right approach to successfully maintain a sibling relationship. The first thing you need to do is to find out how to maintain a sibling relationship.
In “sister-brother” relationships, “older women” like “younger boys “Some are vanity, like each other’s young and handsome; some are looking for a younger man than they are, to relive the romantic feeling of girlhood. The young men, however, often look at each other’s maturity, stability, understanding, economic independence, some have suffered emotional damage, to find a gentle and kind wife; some are their own economic conditions deviation, want to live a stable life; some have an Oedipal complex. At present, “sibling love” is generally still subject to family and social pressure, but “sibling love” lovers mostly believe that the pressure to resist tradition and custom in exchange for happiness, itself is the happiest and worth cherishing. The most important thing is that it is not just a matter of the time, but also a matter of the time.
1. Promote yourself
Sisters generally have their own life The circle, with hobbies that have developed over the years, does not need to be dependent on the man and rely on him for everything. This is a great mental relief for the man. He doesn’t want to be called on to fight cockroaches when he’s too busy and dizzy. And, a harmonious marriage is exactly one that allows the other person to retain their individuality while respecting it.
2. The personalities can complement each other
Women in sister-brother relationships run out of The young and beautiful quality, and the man does not have the advantage of being older with a good income. This is when the two people get along more purely, reduced to the need to communicate, the need for emotion. Then, “talk” must be the first condition for two people to get together. Whether the “sister” of the mind childish or, “brother” character old or mature. It’s only when you’re on the same level of thinking that you can communicate.
Life is not about how far you can best go, but what average you can stabilize at. Quality of life is not based on orgasm, but on what you usually eat and drink. Even if you’ve been king of the world for a second, as long as the vast majority of the time is spent picking up trash, then you’re a bum.
Personality determines marriage, and it’s not a case of consistent personality being good.
In the formula for choosing a good man, lifestyle habits take precedence over personality, meaning that you first choose someone whose lifestyle habits are consistent, and then consider personality factors.
In a nutshell, keep in mind that it’s all about consistency in life and complementary personalities.
When you do that, you’re basically not very far from happiness.
3. Let go of motherhood
The woman should not be too motherly and too ‘spoiling’ the husband. Habitual giving will make the man not feel the need to take on the corresponding family obligations. And the woman will one day feel too tired. When the time comes to ask for a change both have been used to family responsibility model is better than early division of labor. “Sibling” marriage in the male willing to find “sister” type of wife an important reason is “pressure” is relatively small. The “sister” wife is usually more mature and gives more to the relationship than she takes.
As women’s incomes increase, the need for women to look youthful and beautiful in marriage or love to maintain the relationship is decreasing. The proportion of women in marriage who rely on spiritual or other aspects to attract each other is increasing. This may also be one of the reasons for the increase in “sister-brother” relationships.
4, Reduce the pressure on the man
Girls love to be petty and cry when things don’t go their way. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of the problem. Many “sister” type lovers have been through the sea of love, know how to make their own position the most comfortable, what distance is most suitable for two people. The actual fact is that you will not be able to use some cautious behavior language to make things difficult for men. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Sisters know more about life and are more experienced in all aspects, especially financially, and many have houses and cars, so men won’t have a lot of pressure to put more energy into their careers and don’t need to spend their time teaching a little girl to grow up. The first thing you need to do is to get the best out of your sister’s girlfriend.
Choosing an older sister, in addition to being less stressful financially, sisters can be a strong help in a man’s career, allowing him to get closer to success faster. In the past, the idea that the woman is 3 years or more older than the man, the man may have to withstand and break through the world pressure to get together with the woman, and this pressure is proportional to the size of the woman’s age, the older she is, the greater the pressure. Now, the open social climate has created an opportunity for both.