A relationship can be a blast, but not a marriage. Marriage is not just about your love, it’s more about the minutiae of life, like the firewood and the salt, like the bad habits he makes you angry. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
1. Don’t always stare at him squeezing toothpaste from the middle, and don’t always remind him not to make a sound when he eats.
Some of the so-called virtues that women inherently care about, men are just as inherently unhappy to follow, just like he likes beer and you like perfume. Since it is nature, it is better to simply turn a blind eye to it. Because no matter how you think about it, how these small loose ends can’t directly affect your married life unless you’re always so sensitive.
2. Even if you forget your anniversary, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you.
If wives had to choose again between a sissy or a big man, I believe the majority would still choose the latter. When men are careless and forgetful, most of them are just the exposure of his nature. The woman must not equate this carelessness with indifference or indifference, the man forgetfulness, you may as well ignore their own careful eye “unconscious”.
3. Her cycle syndrome is just a few days a month, don’t worry too much about it.
She is well aware of her irregularity. So you’d better drop your guard about her cycle and not always be on the edge of your seat on “special days”. The trouble will come on time every month anyway, and it will last for decades. Nuwa has made women this way, and no one can change it. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
4. It’s just a 90-minute ballgame, so let him watch the whole thing and it won’t affect your life.
Whether it’s the World Cup Europe or the Asian Cup, the ball game is not all the time in the end. Think of yourself as an uncomprehending, or ignorant little girl, and 90 minutes will pass quickly. Be sure to believe that he is still the same man you have known for years, and when the dust settles on the pitch, he will surely come back to you unscathed.
5. She likes to mull over the text messages in your phone, but only to make herself feel more at ease.
Think about it, if you just met, her checking your phone might be the thing that turns you on. The fact that she goes through your phone and is jealous over a pink number shows that she is nervous about you and intends to let you know that she is. The passion may fade a bit after marriage, but she cares that you are definitely no less nervous about you. If you take this as a sign of mistrust and get angry, it only shows that you are weak-minded.
6. Him talking and laughing with another woman actually has little to do with moving on.
If you’re not sure he’s moving on, consider using the “blunt force”. In fact, you know very well that not every woman is always ready to steal your husband, and he must be wondering because of your slowness and unresponsiveness: which outcome would you choose: whether she doesn’t love me anymore or doesn’t care about me, or whether the sea of jealousy is rising.
7. She buys you ties and clothes for her family as the most normal expression of affection.
The truth is that she probably spends more time with her family. As an older sister or sister, it’s perfectly normal for her to spend some money for her siblings. Even if it’s a little more, it’s just that she loves her family too much, just as she loves you just as much. If you can be at peace with her spending $1,000 on a tie for you, why can’t you be equally at peace with the gifts she buys for her family
8. The fact that he accidentally mouthed three words to you once means at the very least that he’s not used to talking to you that way.
Speaking foul language is not a character issue, but perhaps just a habit formed because of the environment he grew up in. Just as a well-mannered person can become a criminal, a man who speaks foul may not be a bad person. Especially when it comes to your wife, it’s not the foul language that points to sex, it’s just one of his bad habits, and there’s no difference between smoking and drinking. And besides, you’re bound to hear more foul language outside of your home environment, like in an office or restaurant, so just pretend he’s a strange guy.
9. Don’t always count on his coffers, what’s a man without a few private dollars?
Generally speaking, the amount of a man’s private money is not very large. Whether it is for the convenience of using up, or want to be generous in front of people, this is not to disrupt the economic order of your own home. The fact is, you can live well without that money. There is no need for wives to be suspicious, let alone behave like a taxman. As the saying goes, if you’re too smart, an unexpected gift on an anniversary might just go down the drain.
10. She likes sleeping under the same roof as her mom because she now knows more about how hard it is to be a parent.
While not many men want their mother-in-law to live in their house, it’s better than living in their mother-in-law’s house. So whenever your mother-in-law arrives, you should review the situation in your calculus class in college: trying to look like you’re listening, while making an idiot face. Usually teachers can only do so much for such students, which is at least better than endless counting and suspicion.