Women’s emotions are very delicate, they are romantic and tender, they will always miss the good sweetness of the past, so although many years have passed, they will still think of their old lovers from time to time. Japanese private detective agency conducted a “search for first love” activity, 90% of the participants are women, so it can be seen how old lovers in the hearts of women have a place. The first thing you need to do is to find out why women are so nostalgic for their old lovers.
One reason: remembered him by chance and his phone number was easy to find
Ann Lin, 29, returned to her hometown town on business and passed by the entrance of her alma mater high school, where the familiar sights and smells brought back instant memories of her high school days and her first boyfriend. She got the boy’s phone number from her mother and dialed his number out of her curiosity to know if her former lover was okay. They had dinner together and shared memories of those good old days.
Benefit: Satisfied ego curiosity and vanity because he still remembers those past events from years ago.
Downside: One such reunion is enough, don’t abuse it. Otherwise even the good memories are hard to keep. In fact, everyone knows it in their hearts: the past will never come back.
Reason #2: Because he once said he could always dial his cell phone number if he wanted to
Reason #2: Because he once said he could always dial his cell phone number if he wanted to
Xiaowei, 36, recalls: I broke up with him because I brought it up, and he was very upset. The last time we met, he was in tears, and it was heartbreaking to see a grown man crying like that. He said I was a permanent pain in his heart. But he understood my determination because he really couldn’t give me the happiness I was looking for. He said I could dial his cell phone number whenever I wanted. Every Christmas since then, I have called him, and I have been guilty of having hurt a heart that loved me so much.
Benefit: In a man’s tears, a woman’s vanity is satisfied. Comforting a broken heart is something all women are willing to do.
Bad: Men are much more forgetful than we give them credit for. And holds a grudge. When the trauma in his heart subsides, your image and status in his mind will be completely changed. When you’re still calling him in an apologetic and caring tone, he’s probably muttering, “This woman is annoying enough, she doesn’t know the right place to be.
Reason #3: Time Sometimes Needs a Little Rewind
Women will always need proof that love can last forever.
Reading Ming, 35, has been married for 10 years and regularly dates her old flame: “I can call him at any time and he does his best to come see me, and we reminisce about old times together. ”
Benefit: Satisfies a woman’s vanity. At no time is it a woman’s sin to create a warm and fuzzy environment for herself.
Downside: Basically, there is no downside. Just what will your husband think of you if he finds out?