The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a topic of much discussion since ancient times, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also very complicated, so what can be done about the bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? The most important thing is to make sure that you have a good relationship with your family.
I’ve read many articles and seen many examples of people who got married because they loved the man and divorced because they couldn’t stand the relationship between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The world’s good mother-in-law (popo) is there, but not many families seen, just like a thousand miles, difficult to meet, if you meet a good mother-in-law (popo) that is your last life to enjoy the blessings of this life to come. But more are slightly difficult to their own mother-in-law, someone to which the relationship point magnified, it becomes a disharmonious relationship exists, someone put up with it, but the heart is tired. For generations, people have been discussing the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so there are now books or articles such as measures for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, manuals for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along with each other, and the hits are old and high, from this we can see that in fact most people still want to have a good relationship with their mother-in-law or daughter-in-law, just lacking the way.
It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with each other, and some people complain bitterly that their mother-in-law does not understand after they have used their heart. Why should you be good to you? You do not have any kinship with them, that is, you are just a strange resident of the family, know why the difference between mother-in-law and mother-in-law? The mother-in-law thinks she can have the ability and patience to serve her son during her lifetime, her daughter-in-law is just a person her son has found to pass on to future generations, especially some petulant women, in the mind of the mother-in-law is not a good impression, when the mother-in-law is still young, is not really think of her daughter-in-law is to accompany her son’s life, when she is a hundred years later by this daughter-in-law to take care of her son’s life, and mother-in-law is not The mother-in-law knows from the day her daughter gets married: the man in front of her is the one who replaces her to give her hard-earned daughter happiness, it is only natural to be good to this man, and always advise her daughter to be more understanding about anything. Women, three from the four virtues, gentle and considerate, divorced women are even more reviled, so a thousand ways to women to tolerate. But now it is different, modern women have their own ideas, so the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has evolved to be more intense. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
It’s said that every family has its own problems, yes. The reason is that there is no way to determine who is right and who is wrong, who seems to have reason, also seems to have no reason, no matter how to deal with it is not a good job, men are like a turtle shrinking back at this time, and then slowly began to be annoyed, fed up, and then would rather night and day, flee from reality, and let the two women they love bloodbath. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law directly affects the relationship between husband and wife, which is a fact that has remained unchanged for ages, and in the end there is only one result of who loses and who gets hurt, a tragic end, either the couple is separated or the mother and son are separated, and then never interact. This time the daughter-in-law has something to say: you Y’s, is not a man? Look at all regardless of the matter, the mother-in-law has something to say: there is a daughter-in-law forgot mother, you an unfilial son! Men are in a difficult position: look forward to their own non-existence of the family that is a beautiful thing. A family just broke up.
The solution to the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in addition to the two open and sincere, mutual understanding, the role of the man who plays the son and husband of the family is very important, because it is because of you and let these two women who do not have any intersection met and live together, without you they can say that the two are walking in parallel. Say two people walking in parallel lines, the mother-in-law loves you, the daughter-in-law loves you, the surface favoring either side of the other side will be dissatisfied, a person who respects and loves his wife, the mother-in-law will follow the respect and love, a person who respects his mother, the daughter-in-law will also follow the respect. The man is a teaching book, what men do is teaching material, mother-in-law relationship is not really difficult to deal with, the human heart is flesh long, give each other sincere will get sincere return, a person who does not pursue not expect return will live more heart without depression, only more happy.
What to do about the bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
The next time you have a problem with your mother-in-law or daughter-in-law, try not to start with a long speech at the other side, which wastes your spirit and ruins your mood, try to calm yourself and turn around or immediately say to your son or husband: son/husband, something happened today and I accidentally had some problems with my mother-in-law, I was too impulsive, my mother-in-law is a good mother, I think it’s embarrassing, I’m sorry! This may be many people will feel why to say to the man? In fact, this is a technique, listen to then people say sometimes it is better to listen to their own to the evaluation from the mouth of others. Slowly everyone will not be so fire, everyone will be angry, but some things can be put down, put down, do not take things to enlarge with friends or close friends to say, that will only let others see the joke, perhaps then you will feel that friends also stand in your point of view to think about the problem, respond to you, in fact, you do not know, when you turn around, your close friends or friends will take your things to say to others: (married to a good family) Who who, married to a family so good still smacked east and west, do not know how to cherish …… (married bad) who who …… married really unhappy, met a so horrible mother-in-law, so we want to marry when to see the point of howl, that you are a living teaching book . When others see your mother-in-law will also have a different look or remarks. When you know after if you are that mother-in-law you will still have a change of heart towards your daughter-in-law?
The man is the key to solving the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, this is the point, the point is that the man is willing to do this for you. For this family put so much energy to maintain the family, this is the most important, do not say how bad the mother-in-law is, and do not say how bad the daughter-in-law is, if the mother-in-law is a bad person also can not raise the man you want to marry, if the daughter-in-law is not good, you raise a son will not marry her. Living in harmony is what everyone needs to work towards.
What to do if your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a bad relationship? The relationship between a daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law is much less than the relationship between a mother and her daughter. To have a good relationship with your mother-in-law in addition to your own attention in many ways, it is also very important for the man in a family to regulate the relationship between the two.