Many married women feel that everything becomes different after marriage. The husband doesn’t seem to love and care for himself as much, or even have time for himself anymore. These women usually dream idealized marriage, always have romantic unrealistic fantasies, simply do not realize that the rice and oil is the real married life. They usually feel empty, lonely and mentally uninspired. In the opinion of psychologists, they are already in a state of “emotional hunger”. So how can we get rid of the “emotional hunger”?
First, be at peace
In married life, when all the passion turns to affection of passion turn into affection, have the patience to live your life peacefully. Some women can’t give up the pursuit of romantic life, they tend to suffer from “emotional hunger”. They feel that their husbands are becoming more and more boring, and they can’t mobilize their passion for life, so they feel empty and lonely.
In fact, such women see only one side of life, with negative emotions, and blame their husbands for all their sins. They never take the initiative to do something about it, for example: should they reflect on themselves, is it too much to ask of their husbands? Are you being unrealistic and too romantic? Communication with her husband, communication? The woman who complains all day long, what else can she do but be mentally unstable, empty and lonely, and depressed?
Second, have faith in your marriage and family
“Emotional hunger” is an unhealthy state that affects the human spirit. Make women lose confidence in marriage, family, disappointed in their husbands, indifferent attitude to life, in order to get rid of the emptiness, they either play cards and hang out, or red, looking for extra-marital stimulation, but after that is still a blank. Therefore, the most important thing is to have faith in the marriage and family.
Third, distraction
In addition, you can also use The psychological “transference” method is to think more about what you are doing and to work hard to fill the void in your mind. If you make new achievements in your career, it will create a sense of accomplishment. Care more about your children, when they grow up healthy, your heart will be comforted and a sense of pride will rise up. When you fill the gaps in your life with meaningful things to develop your passion for life, where is the mood and leisure to take care of the “emotional hunger”?