Many lovers feel confused after marriage, why there is no passion after marriage instead? The contradictions are also highlighted, the trivialities of the firewood and salt never seem to end, and even cold war, which finally leads to the declaration of failure of the marriage. Although no one can guarantee that if you get married, you will not get divorced, but there are four danger periods that are high divorce rate, do you know?
The first danger period
When a child is born, the couple’s The pressure on the couple suddenly increases, the original playfulness and entertainment is greatly reduced, and the quality of sex life decreases. The “triangle” of relationships created by the arrival of a child changes the “two-person world” and leaves couples feeling nervous, confused, and bewildered about their marriage at the same time.
The second risk period
Four to five years after marriage, couples It is easy to feel that life is bland and boring. The husband has been working for years, but does not see any bright future, more lazy to do housework; wife has to work and take care of the children, too busy, the couple do not have the leisure to make love, this time they may find another soulmate.
The third danger period
Survey by sociologists around seven years after marriage survey found that couples’ satisfaction with their marriage drops to its lowest point between the sixth and tenth year of marriage. And indeed, the incidence of divorce also peaks between the seventh and tenth years of marriage. This is the time when couples should help each other with the utmost patience and care to ensure the quality of their marriage.
The fourth risk period
Twenty years or so after marriage, this is the time when The physical condition of both men and women gradually changes. The wife is often irritable and worried about losing all her charm as she enters menopause, while the husband is worried about aging – no longer energetic, no longer agile, can’t beat his son in basketball, and has no hope of promotion. At this time he needs understanding and comfort, and his wife has exactly the same requirements. If the couple can’t give to each other, then he or she may look for it in other people of the opposite sex.